"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Condom kinda slipped off....need advice asap

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A girl down on campus asked me up one nite, long story short, we had sex last nite for the first time, and....well I THINK the condom slipped off at one point during sex......no time after that did I place it back in....so it was possible that after I pulled out it came off (stupid thing was small lol)....Ive never actually had the pleasure of screwing without a condom (for obvious reasons) and if It did fall off inside, I assume I would have felt it.


Shes on the pill but I need some advice whether I should take the honor and buy some OTC morning after or forget about it? The condom i was using had spermicide on it.

PS: Life Styles are ****
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Take some responsibilty.

Get her to go to her doctor to take the morning after pill or something.
 
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Talk to her about it and see what she wants to do. No sense in you spending your money on something that she doesn't want to take because it will make her sick. If she does want it, though, I'd go ahead and pony up - better to be safe and drop $80 than spend the next 18 years raising a kid or paying child support.

Let this be a lesson to you - start checking periodically throughout sex to be sure the condom is fine... and never, ever use a Lifestyles condom (especially the Tuxedo line).
 
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Take Diablo's advice: lifestyles are not good condoms at all.

I also do not like durex.

Personally, trojan have always been good to me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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As Diablo basically said its better to be safe instead of ending up paying child support for 18 years. Its really not worth the hassle.
I know someone who had a child with his girlfriend and things later went sour and he ended paying alot of legal court costs and now has to pay child support for a very long time.

Its sometimes good to use as several birth control methods at one time. Like Condoms, with birth control pills, with an IUD. That way the chances of getting her pregnat is slimmer.
 
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oh the condom, it was ****en tight (i guess it was the regualr brand) Since I got it at a convience store.....

Now I know to shop @ shoppers drugmart

And an unrelated question, does using lub imply that u did get her wet before sex or do u guys use it often?
 
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Originally posted by Kaparski
oh the condom, it was ****en tight (i guess it was the regualr brand) Since I got it at a convience store.....

Now I know to shop @ shoppers drugmart

And an unrelated question, does using lub imply that u did get her wet before sex or do u guys use it often?
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No matter how wet she gets, I'll often use lube when I wear a condom.... I find condoms dry us both out, after a while. You can never have enough lubrication.

If she IS on the pill, I wouldn't worry about it too much. Did you cvm inside of her? If so, then talk to her about it..... you're 99.9% safe, either way... as long as she takes her pills right, and doesn't regularly miss them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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For some reason, im not quiet clear on what happened???? did it slip of and you RAMED IT up inside her.......or what???:confused:
 
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So what are you waiting for dude? You better double check as soon as possible or you might be a daddy soon! Just remember child support for 18 years. And women change after having a child. They could become real bit**es!

Even if she says she is on the pill you ought not presume she is. Bad mistake! Always presume she is not on anything.

False presumption is the mother load of all f**k ups! Avoid it and you avoid alot of pain and grief!

No matter what, even if she was irresponsible for not taking The Pill and she gets pregnant you still will have to pay child support. The way the court system works is that the interest of the child comes first. And the courts do not often side with the guy.

I'm just trying to save you from alot of grief and pain. My friend went through something similar with his ex-girlfriend. good luck
 
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I better go buy one....its been 48 hrs........100 now can save me a lifetime

You have any idea if they can desolve??? ;)
 
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