"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yea droped down to see her today and her sister was their. shes hot to so i was chating both up. was going very well constant eye contact with both.

it helps their from around my home town nfld.

I was very nervice going up to the door for a pop in but she came down and was pleased to see me so that killed a little bit of nerves anyway.

i got 2 of their numbers and they said to be sure and call to go at something. the problem is i got to chose which i want one is 29 and conservativewith a steady gov. job and the other one i knew from befor is 22 sex crazed and unpredictable.

which would you guys pick im stumped.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by nfld
yea droped down to see her today and her sister was their. shes hot to so i was chating both up. was going very well constant eye contact with both.

it helps their from around my home town nfld.

I was very nervice going up to the door for a pop in but she came down and was pleased to see me so that killed a little bit of nerves anyway.

i got 2 of their numbers and they said to be sure and call to go at something. the problem is i got to chose which i want one is 29 and conservativewith a steady gov. job and the other one i knew from befor is 22 sex crazed and unpredictable.

which would you guys pick im stumped.
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Well it depends. If your young and just want fun, then go for the sex crazed one. If your looking for a girl to settle down with, the older one might be better.
 
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yup

maby i will try to get them both why not let them fight over me

it would be strange if they double teamed me were their sisters
 
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yea

after further deliberation i think the older one is more my style she wears bagy close but she got a killer body get her in a nice tight dress man look out
 
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