"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Concerns over Neil Strauss' book, The Game.

Rick

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I'm sure most of you are familiar with Neil Strauss' book titled "The Game". It encompasses stories told by master DJs like Style, Mystery etc.

I've felt some concern towards this kind of book, and maybe some of you agree with me on this. But don't you feel that since this book's become a best-selling book now that the knowledge we have is going to begin to lose it's value? I always felt like it was cool to have exclusive knowledge that most people didn't. Now it's being exposed to a larger group of people around North America and around the world. Women will learn about it more, as will men. The knowledge of playing "The Game" is being exposed to more people. A lot of exclusivity is lost.

What does this all mean for us in the long-run, is what I'm basically trying to get at.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Rick
I'm sure most of you are familiar with Neil Strauss' book titled "The Game". It encompasses stories told by master DJs like Style, Mystery etc.

I've felt some concern towards this kind of book, and maybe some of you agree with me on this. But don't you feel that since this book's become a best-selling book now that the knowledge we have is going to begin to lose it's value? I always felt like it was cool to have exclusive knowledge that most people didn't. Now it's being exposed to a larger group of people around North America and around the world. Women will learn about it more, as will men. The knowledge of playing "The Game" is being exposed to more people. A lot of exclusivity is lost.

What does this all mean for us in the long-run, is what I'm basically trying to get at.
Yes, more and more men and women will find out about the secret knowledge and cause without exclusive knwoledge no sex will happen mankind will die out very soon.

:cry: :nervous: :mad:
 

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Should we be worried about the game going mainstream? it depends

1. More women will be looking out for neg hits and other DJ techniques: this is probably the only drawback but still the 99% of women know nothing about them so you shouldn't be worried. I would be worried about using DJ techniques in clubs because those are the type of women that are probably aware of this stuff. I wouldn't worry about using it on college girls or most other type of women etc.

Even if most women became aware of DJ techniques, there is one thing we know that will always hold true

Women will always be attracted to confident/****y/strong men. It is hardwired in their genetics, it is in the minds, most women want to be loved, they want to be "tamed" by their idea of alpha male.

The above is the reason you shouldn't worry. You might be worried about using canned liners from the game, but ****y/Funny tactics will always work because they show confidence, and confidence is something that women will always love.
 
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