"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Concept of you attract what you are.

Wingedsig

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This concept is merely for contemplation, as I use tactic myself when in the dating arena. But don't you find it odd that people using PUA tactic are attracting largely (myself included) Cluster B's and personality disordered chicks that display "player like" tendencies? My ex was BPD, and had a huge male orbiter following. My latest encounter was w a chick that I swear was HPD and had every dude she ecountered swooning over her. My point is, if we continue to employ these tactics are we doomed to only attract Alpha Female, attention *****, player like females? Or has anyone in here picked up a decent level headed female employing strategy? I seem to only get the crazy a$$es.I'm just curious, that's all.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SgtSplacker

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There are two types of people on this site. Those that are looking to get laid, and those looking to understand women. Both types of people have high chances of hooking up with Cluster B women. Guys that are trying to get laid can lay these cluster Bs easily. And the other kind are usually here trying to understand the mindfak these women serve up on an hourly basis. The third kind are dudes that have their game on tight and naturally attract women due to their assets...
 

skinnyguy

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Well it is true that sleazy dudes attract sleazy girls. Think about how many hot chicks want dbags with tattoos.
 
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