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Concept of wavelength

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Because I’ve recently returned to casual dating (and responding to a Long brewing but ultimately recent low interest rejection) I’ve listened to a couple of Confidence and relaxation hypnosis recordings over the last month and studied a bit about calmness and wavelength (Recent Stormrider thread Here Illuminating) and I’ve noticed a marked increase in female responsiveness. I’ve felt eye contact/smiles from Women across roads, girls 20-25 years younger than me (I’m 47) making eye contact and saying Hi (one I guess was 17/18) my ex-partner Who I split up with 4 years ago (who I have a son with) Talking and laughing much longer on the phone and sending me music video links

I feel more relaxed and ‘congruent’ and am obviously projecting a form of energy that is being felt and noticed in a way I’ve not noticed for over 10 years. The best lesson form all this is to not chase or ‘lead’ too much with female interactions and observe the opportunities for openings and progression.
 

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I've experienced the same thing. Ignoring that which you can't control and not turning into a self-doubting pvssy when you screw up is the ultimate power.
 

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The reason why wavelength theory works is because there is a female equivalent for you somewhere out there.

I know for me, as long as I work hard, take care of my responsibilities, take care of my health, and raise my vibration, I will manifest my female equivalent every time I leave the house. Sometimes in the most freaky and unexpected manner.

So if I leave the house and my female equivalent shows up, wouldn't I be 100% confident that we are on the same wavelength and feel that there is nothing special I need to do? No game I need to run. Just relax and chill, and look for windows to escalate. Sometimes (a lot of the times, actually), the WOMAN would escalate. Because she also knows that I am on her wavelength.

Wavelength has nothing to do with masculine and feminine. That's sexual polarity. This is something that happens naturally if you are a masculine man and there's no point thinking about it.

Wavelength is more about values. I value self-love, self-development, positivity, raising my level of "deserve", and earning my merit, and I often manifest people (not just women) who have the same values.

Whenever I manifest the wrong people, I know that I am not living up to my values somewhere. There's always a perfect correlation between my level of "deserve" and the people/experiences that show up.

Be of integrity, raise your level of deserve by doing what you know you need to do, and romance/relationships/friendships will work itself out.

Now of course, some men on this forum have been raising their levels of deserve for a long time and still can't find women. And I usually tell them it's because they don't have much of s social life. So it's raise your level of deserve + put yourself out there.
 

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I get what you're saying, but you can achieve that kind of confidence in other ways too. No need for hypnosis recordings.
If I am seeing a woman currently, I'll have it. If I'm doing well physically, I'll have it. If I'm happy, I'll have it.
 

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I get what you're saying, but you can achieve that kind of confidence in other ways too. No need for hypnosis recordings.
If I am seeing a woman currently, I'll have it. If I'm doing well physically, I'll have it. If I'm happy, I'll have it.
Wavelength is dependent upon the things you do and how you think. Associating with people on a particular wavelength will start to get you there.
 

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I get what you're saying, but you can achieve that kind of confidence in other ways too. No need for hypnosis recordings.
If I am seeing a woman currently, I'll have it. If I'm doing well physically, I'll have it. If I'm happy, I'll have it.
In my experience, it's not that you have success therefore you are confident. It's that you are confident and therefore you have success.

Confidence is projected, not earned. It is the cause and not the effect.

You can be tricked into confidence by people appealing to your ego where there is no real objective basis for them to do so. If you believe the smoke being blown up your ass and act confident, the way women act towards you will change drastically. But you didn't earn anything, you just embodied it and stopped questioning yourself because you believed them

True confidence is not about ego though, it's about expressing your true self and being ok with ALL the consequences of that expression. The ego gets butthurt easily when things don't go it's way. The true self observes the meta context of each interaction without getting offended.
 

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To add to this: Men are always on the directive. We find ourselves in Action Mode more than in a passive mode.. It's like we're always prepared for whatever's next or whats in front of us, or to take an action. When a man is in this mode, a woman subconsciously feel as if they cannot get to the man, or capture his attention well enough. They might also feel passive, and guarded. It's the Yin and the Yang.. . But when a man is in a relaxed, inviting mode, he might find himself having multiple women's attraction. he might even have a dog or cat want to sit in his lap. This gives women the Yang position. Where they can take the initiative, or focus their attention on us, instead of play the passive role. We're suddenly the guy walking in slow motion , that they are looking at. Or the warm radiating comfort that they can come over to and sit in our lap.

It's all energy baby
 
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