"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Concept II rowing machine

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My gym added a pair of concept II rowing machines recently. I'm starting a cutting cycle tonight so I tried it out for 12 minutes. Took a "break" to do crunches and then did another 12 on the life cycle. Phew! I'm a rag.

I checked out the concept II website and watched the animation to get an idea of what the proper form is. Only thing is, an overhand grip feels sort of unnatural. I switched back and forth from overhand to underhand grip. The underhand grip seems to work the bis and back better while the overhand seems to work traps and tris more.

Anybody here know whether or not your grip matters here?

It was one hell of a cardio session either way. After about minute three, it becomes obvious you are getting a full body workout. I'm going to be a big rowing machine fan.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Templeton

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If I only had one piece of equipment I could use it would be the Concept ll, in my view it does a bit of everything and is by far the best exercise for cardio - HIIT or steady state. You have to learn proper technique though and the vast majority of people do it totally wrong so get someone in the know - ideally a rower - to show you how to perform it correctly.

I've always done it with an overhand grip, that's what the guys in the rowing team I know do and that's good enough for me. I would have thought an underhand grip would feel unnatural if anything. Remember, rowing is a great allround exercise but you have your free weight movements in order to hit specific bodyparts so personally I would advise conventional rowing form.

As a former rower I'm sure Diesel could give you more technical advice than I.
 

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The correct grip is one that one would use for a motorcycle. Don't worry about initial blisters, by the way. They'll disappear.
 

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I've never had a single blister from it, you shouldn't be gripping it that tight. (Mind you, my hands are pretty robust from years of lifting).
 

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i believe your using the machine incorrectly. I have a room-mate who is D1 recruited rower whos team placed first nationally in high school. His biggest pet peave is that people think rowers use their upperbody. If you subscribe to proper form, you will be putting most of the work on your legs. That is after all the largest muscle that could be reasonably used for rowing. There is also a lot of form that should be built up, it is lack of form that prevents many guys in great physical shape from rowing well. After hearing him talk about everything involved in rowing properly id be hesitant to even get on a machine. regardless, try and look up some good information on form before getting on the machine
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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