"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What's your weapon of choice?

I've been watching videos of different guns on youtube. I'm new to the scene, and obviously I can not conceal carry a gun here, even if I do it would be a traumatic pistol with none lethal rounds, so I prefer a knife at the moment. But all that is going to change soon, and I gave it a good though about guns. I realized that I already carry a knife all the time, and a gun is a logical upgrade to a knife. I wonder about some things though. For example what size pistol do people usually carry? There are full size and compact size, like beretta apx compact, or glock g19x, then there is single stack magazine compact size pistols like smith and wesson. I can't picture myself carrying an additional magazine with me, it would be too much. Also, thing that I don't understand yet is the lack of external safety on some of the pistols, seems to be a dumb idea to me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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speed dawg

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Springfield XD9 is a good one. No safety on it, so that means you have to pull it and chamber it to fire it, which I think is a good idea. I don't want to walk around with a chambered gun on me, even if there is a safety. Too easy for the gun to malfunction.

If somebody totally surprises me, not much I can do anyway. If I am in a sketchy situation, I assume I will have time to pull it and chamber it.
 
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Springfield XD9 is a good one. No safety on it, so that means you have to pull it and chamber it to fire it, which I think is a good idea. I don't want to walk around with a chambered gun on me, even if there is a safety. Too easy for the gun to malfunction.

If somebody totally surprises me, not much I can do anyway. If I am in a sketchy situation, I assume I will have time to pull it and chamber it.
Kydex holsters are molded to fit a specific gun, so there's no chance of accidentally pulling the trigger. Check out Comp-tac, I've been happy with their products.

 
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I don't carry often, but when I do it's a Glock 26 or a Kahr pm9, always chambered. Neither has a traditional safety, but that's what the holster is for.
 

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Hard to beat a mini 32-38 cal. revolver or s-a in a ankle or inner boot holster if your slacks/jeans will conceal it…
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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