"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Compromise with so-so girls, or go for the 10s?

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Hey guys I've been working on just improving myself in general for a while now, and becoming a DJ seems like a logical step in doing that. I've been lurking around theses forums for a while now, but im finally starting to post now.

So heres my problem. There are 3 girls, who I'm sure I could date if I wanted to. I've been using C+F and everything, and I'm certain these girls would go out with me. The thing is they aren't really that hot. One of them is a 7. the other 2 are 6s. The only reason I'm doing anything with these girls is because when I met them I was still an AFC, but I did have the foresight to keep myself out of the friendzone, once I learned how to pick up chicks properly, I started seeing if I could get these girls to like me and it worked.

I'm wondering, should I go further with one of these girls? Or should I go for better ones. I've finally gotten to the point where a pretty girl doesnt make me nervous. I've finnally passed off beauty as just one feature among other things in a girl, so I know I can get better girls if I try. Just wondering what you guys think about passing up these open oppurtunities.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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If you believe you can get better girls ie 10's go for the 10's man.

Why not reach for the stars?

You only live once after all.

Sure you can practice on these lower level chicks first if you want but definitely don't settle for that if you feel you can do better.
 

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Michele said:
this screams social proof.

or just a huge orgy.

LOL not all 3 at the same time. Heh I guess the post came off a little too brag-ish.
 

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Its all you man. I mean why not look for a 10 but at the same time don't stop talking to any other types of girls altogether.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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***** is *****. Those guys that tell you to go for 10s have never ****ed 10s. They've only ****ed their hands. If you can have a free ******* every weekend, or masturbate every week until you mysteriously get a 10, I'll take the free *******. And no offense, but I doubt you'll get a 10 if all you're attracting is borderline 7s. Maybe you can get an 8, but not a dime piece. Not in HS. Go out with the 7, have your fun, and dump her the second you get these 10s.
 

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dont listen tro him you can get a 10 if you improve yourself more.
 

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Its all a matter of game. Stick with DJing and you'll go far.
 

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jtrain 289 said:
dont listen tro him you can get a 10 if you improve yourself more.
You're 15. That means you just went through first year of HS right? I'm going to be a Senior. I know the way HS is. If all you can attract is 6s and 7s, you will never get a 9 of 10 in your school. Ever. Now maybe out of your school, because they don't know who you are, but that's how HS is. Get over it. It's all about social proof in HS, and 9s and 10s are reserved for the jocks and jocks of other schools.
 

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lol shutup man age has nothing to do with it if you can attract one girl you can attract any girl their is no difference between a 6 and a 7 and a 9 and a 10 thier just hotter thats all Thier still girls the same thing attracts them. You dont need to be popular to get girls you just have to be confident with yourself. and actually im gonna be a junior dumbass my bday is in september
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bling said:
You're 15. That means you just went through first year of HS right? I'm going to be a Senior. I know the way HS is. If all you can attract is 6s and 7s, you will never get a 9 of 10 in your school. Ever. Now maybe out of your school, because they don't know who you are, but that's how HS is. Get over it. It's all about social proof in HS, and 9s and 10s are reserved for the jocks and jocks of other schools.
I just had to point out this guy doesn't know what he is talking about. He is either obviously bitter at failing to change or bitter at never having the aptitude to be considered as having that much game. Either way don't listen to this guy.
 

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Why not date them. If you don't like em get rid of em. Keep moving on the to next girl till you find the right one.
 

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You are better off starting small(not below a 7/8), and using that.. You can broaden your friends and learn with her.. And the more friends you get, you will gain social proof and presence.. At which point you will have more girls looking to talk to you, and if you are still shallow enough you can "upgrade"
 

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Stacks Of Terror said:
I just had to point out this guy doesn't know what he is talking about. He is either obviously bitter at failing to change or bitter at never having the aptitude to be considered as having that much game. Either way don't listen to this guy.
You don't have to listen to me. Listen to yourself. Think about all the girls you've ****ed, and tell me how many of them are guys jerking off to right now? You wouldn't be on this website if you were getting 10s. Like I said, take the easy ***** now and work your way up to 10s, which are pretty damn hard to accomplish. It takes major game to go from 6s or 7s to 10s. Anyone that has actually tried gaming chicks knows that.
 

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Bling said:
You don't have to listen to me. Listen to yourself. Think about all the girls you've ****ed, and tell me how many of them are guys jerking off to right now? You wouldn't be on this website if you were getting 10s. Like I said, take the easy ***** now and work your way up to 10s, which are pretty damn hard to accomplish. It takes major game to go from 6s or 7s to 10s. Anyone that has actually tried gaming chicks knows that.
That can be true, but my main reasoning for posting this is because I've kind of seen that the "hot girls" aren't all that different from average girls. I've conquered the average girls so why not move up. I think giving 10s more respect because they are 10s is kind of AFC. From what I've picked up a true DJ would think of a 10 the same way as a 6 or 7. I guess basically its time for me to find out if I'm a true DJ yet. The only thing I'm concerned about is I'm not really in with the "popular kids" I'm acquaintances with some of the most popular kids in school, but I'm not "in" with them. Is this something to be worried about?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Akyu said:
That can be true, but my main reasoning for posting this is because I've kind of seen that the "hot girls" aren't all that different from average girls. I've conquered the average girls so why not move up. I think giving 10s more respect because they are 10s is kind of AFC. From what I've picked up a true DJ would think of a 10 the same way as a 6 or 7. I guess basically its time for me to find out if I'm a true DJ yet. The only thing I'm concerned about is I'm not really in with the "popular kids" I'm acquaintances with some of the most popular kids in school, but I'm not "in" with them. Is this something to be worried about?
It's my word vs. jtrain and the other guy. We were debating their philosophy on 9s and 10s vs. my personal experience on 9s and 10s. But who cares what we think? It's your life, and you have to listen to yourself. Keep us posted on your dreams of gettings 9s and 10s.
 

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Bling said:
You don't have to listen to me. Listen to yourself. Think about all the girls you've ****ed, and tell me how many of them are guys jerking off to right now? You wouldn't be on this website if you were getting 10s. Like I said, take the easy ***** now and work your way up to 10s, which are pretty damn hard to accomplish. It takes major game to go from 6s or 7s to 10s. Anyone that has actually tried gaming chicks knows that.
You act as if I'm one of those dudes who post up approach journals and act as if this my life work. I'm not saying I regularly pull tens but you're assuming way too much. And thats also not what you said in your other post. You basically said "give up you're not going to pull a good looking woman haha"
 

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I've had this dilemma before.

I asked some of the really experienced guys in my local lair, all they had to say was "fvck your way to the top".

I've realized you can bang the hottest girls from rooting the ugliest chicks.

They always have some hot friends.
 
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Stick with the lower ones for now. Practice sex on them so you don't suck at it when you go to college. Then when you get to college, go to parties where you can meet random girls, ones that are really hot, get 'em smashed and then have sex with them. Since you practiced on the uglies in high school, they won't make fun of you in college.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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