"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i know on here that it teaches dont use compliments, or use them sparingly, but before i started reading this website i always gave girls compliments, it seemed to work on alotta girls, so what is yalls imput on like tellin a iglr shes pretty etc...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Freeman

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Originally posted by requested
i know on here that it teaches dont use compliments, or use them sparingly, but before i started reading this website i always gave girls compliments, it seemed to work on alotta girls, so what is yalls imput on like tellin a iglr shes pretty etc...

My question to you good sir is this" How many times did these "Compliements" work for you to get a woman in bed and how much have you been dranking? Compliments? NO! I'll tell this from experience-that sh*t dont work....if she truly wants you-damn near anything will work...try that my friend-say some off the wall shi* to her-say I have this cool place and you should come over-that would cut out a lot of B.S. and get to the point...Try...


"Turn fear Into Curiosity"
 

OneArmDeeJay

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Do a Freakn’ Search!!!!!



There’s a SEARCH button right between f.a.q and home.
 

arutha

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Of course she's going to like it.. Don't you love it when a chick says you're good looking? Its an ego boost.

But it doesn't help make her attracted to you at all. I pretty much never compliment, and if I do it is on skills or something besides looks, even though they like it it just doesn't seem to prove anything so theres no point..
 
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