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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Compliments/Flirty names. How often do you use them on women?

spiegel549

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Something I thought of earlier today. Curious how often you bros use compliments/flirty nick names for girls you are dating/banging.

After I bang a girl I usually start using cutie, and beautiful in texts. Not often, and not all the time but on the occasion ill respond with "sounds good cutie ;)"

Gearing more towards the early stages of dating, say the first month, how often do you compliment the girls outfit, hair, or call her cutie, beautiful etc via text or in person?
 

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Fireballs

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I just call them dorks in the early stages (don't overdo it though). After I've banged them I might throw in a ''sexy'' here or a ''candypants'' there as a reward for their good behaviour. Personally I never call them beautiful especially if they are an 8+ as I think it can make you look needy (just like all the other guys).

Compliment them on something that they have had a choice in.

''That top really brings out your blue eyes'' or

''You have great energy about you''

But the most important thing is that you actually mean it. Giving a girl a sincere compliment in a cool, calm and playful way can be very powerful. Also remember to use them sparingly as they will have more value.
 

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I love using pet names. I was banging a chick misty, I called her misty mae. Banging Lisa, it was Lisa-lou. My gf now is Catherine, I call her Catnip. It's interesting how much the chicks enjoy this too. They very quickly begin to refer to themselves this way, which means they have identified themselves as being "yours".
 
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