"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Compliments/Flirty names. How often do you use them on women?

spiegel549

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Something I thought of earlier today. Curious how often you bros use compliments/flirty nick names for girls you are dating/banging.

After I bang a girl I usually start using cutie, and beautiful in texts. Not often, and not all the time but on the occasion ill respond with "sounds good cutie ;)"

Gearing more towards the early stages of dating, say the first month, how often do you compliment the girls outfit, hair, or call her cutie, beautiful etc via text or in person?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fireballs

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I just call them dorks in the early stages (don't overdo it though). After I've banged them I might throw in a ''sexy'' here or a ''candypants'' there as a reward for their good behaviour. Personally I never call them beautiful especially if they are an 8+ as I think it can make you look needy (just like all the other guys).

Compliment them on something that they have had a choice in.

''That top really brings out your blue eyes'' or

''You have great energy about you''

But the most important thing is that you actually mean it. Giving a girl a sincere compliment in a cool, calm and playful way can be very powerful. Also remember to use them sparingly as they will have more value.
 

MOTU

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I love using pet names. I was banging a chick misty, I called her misty mae. Banging Lisa, it was Lisa-lou. My gf now is Catherine, I call her Catnip. It's interesting how much the chicks enjoy this too. They very quickly begin to refer to themselves this way, which means they have identified themselves as being "yours".
 
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