“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Compliments about my body but imagine if I actually trained? (motivation question)

lonewolf17

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So I've noticed for a while that a lot of people ask, "hey, do you work out?!" type thing and some just oggle me silently... It's sort of odd though because I actually don't work out at all..in fact, I lead a disgusting, idle lifestyle with one of the worst diets you've probably ever seen.

Now here is the thing. If I DID work out, consistantly, with a plan, I imagine I would be JACKED. If I'm at this stage from being a slob, I could do wonders with some effort.

Now I have a bowflex machine, but for some reason I go down to it and I just can't seem to get anything done...I may get one session done, but then I don't continue with it and its months until I use it again.

What should I do to really MOTIVATE myself to go down there 3 times a week and not let my potential go to waste?

Also, what sort of workout plan would you guys recommend for someone who is already fairly well built? I'm not skinny so I don't need to 'start from scratch', I need to more or less 'build on' what I already have. Any recommendations?

Thanks mates!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Quagmire911

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If you've never worked out before you need to start from the beginning regardless of physical development.

You need to look into free weights/kettlebells. Bowflexes don't seem to be much more than a gimmick.

Quagmire
 

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For BBing you have to really want it deep down, a burning desire. That's what it takes to get great.

MM
 

Flyer

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motivation comes from within. a desire for something.

we can't give you that.
 

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Damn lol...I think I need to find something that would require me to body build, like rock climbing. That way I have a passion to fuel the desire to be stronger. Or I could just convince myself that a really great body will make me more attractive, that's always good motivation I guess.
 

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or you could tell yourself to stop being a lazy fcking slob and just go do it knowing you're doing something great for yourself in the long run. Also, that blowflex thing probably won't get you anywhere...
 

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int3l said:
or you could tell yourself to stop being a lazy fcking slob and just go do it knowing you're doing something great for yourself in the long run. Also, that blowflex thing probably won't get you anywhere...
And a lazy fcking slob I am...I did clean up my room the other day at least. But perhapes you are all right. I think I just need to DO IT and get my act together. Unfortunate about the bowflex, though...that puts a damper on things.
 

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lonewolf17 said:
So I've noticed for a while that a lot of people ask, "hey, do you work out?!" type thing and some just oggle me silently... It's sort of odd though because I actually don't work out at all..in fact, I lead a disgusting, idle lifestyle with one of the worst diets you've probably ever seen.

Now here is the thing. If I DID work out, consistantly, with a plan, I imagine I would be JACKED. If I'm at this stage from being a slob, I could do wonders with some effort.

Now I have a bowflex machine, but for some reason I go down to it and I just can't seem to get anything done...I may get one session done, but then I don't continue with it and its months until I use it again.

What should I do to really MOTIVATE myself to go down there 3 times a week and not let my potential go to waste?

Also, what sort of workout plan would you guys recommend for someone who is already fairly well built? I'm not skinny so I don't need to 'start from scratch', I need to more or less 'build on' what I already have. Any recommendations?

Thanks mates!
How old are you?

When I was in my teens, I had a very slender build. Often I used to get mistaken for an athlete/swimmer when in reality i was the laziest slob on earth with zero energy for physical exercise

Now I'm 25, and I have gained a lot of fat. People keep telling me to lose weight :D If you don't want this to happen to you eventually, you should take up some form of exercise
 

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Read the Book of Pook. He will inspire you to improve yourself.

And maybe get a friend who will start going to the gym with you.
 

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Good Luck with your training.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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