Complimenting yourself...over doing it ?

[bigblock7]

I'm 22 probably in the best shape of my life. I dress well and as of late have been taking greater effort in my appearance and have been obtaining the results. Now tell me do you recon your blowing or own horn or being to egotistical if your were to sometimes compliment yourself or show off. For example: giving women the hint you are a hit with the ladies ; stating you have high standards ; giving women examples of times girls have hit on you or instances where girls were obsessed with you. For example after a lecture once I ran into my relative and her 8/9 - 10 friend. At the present time I was being followed/stalked by a 3/10 who was/is obsessed with me and wants my kabana in her butthole ( I would rather use my hand then pound this 3/10). Anyway I talked to my relative and her 8/9 friend and subsequently told the story of the obsessed 3/10. I made remarks like " Its hard being me " or " she was biting her lips when she was staring at me ".

I have done this a few times and most occasions I get a chuckle out of the HB's. I wanted to make sure though I'm not overdoing it and talking to much about myself.

Sometimes I might dance with a stranger..or friend of friend or newly met classmate and be like .... " hey do you have a bf ? " ... if they say no I would be like " oh that's weird most single girls would be all over me by now !!! " . Bit corny but sometimes it works.

Anyway some advise would be great...cheers

 

[Greasy Pig]

I think you can overdo it and come across as a complete tool.

Subtlety and mystery is effective. If you do make it overt, make sure you do it with a big cheeky grin and a wink.

But hey, whatever works for you.

 

[JohnChops]

well if your over doing it you come off as ****y as well. If you know you look good, know you feel good then show it in your actions. Don't verbalize it, that also shows kind of some insecurity. Its more of an inner self worth kind of thing, to know that you are those things and you dont need validation from anyone. But sometimes you can be ****y as it feels good and works most of the times. Just only do it once in a while.

 

[alxrose04]

Johnchops has a point, the more good looking you are the less you have to state things about yourself. Most of those things are implied. But if you want to mention those things, make them a small detail of a bigger story. If those details are the story, then it comes off as bragging bit not if a smaller part od a bigger story

 

[wataf]

Comeback to the "you're pretty ****y arent you?" line I just say "I'm not ****y i'm just confident in my abilities" (think it may have been an old mystery or some other pua line) but it's all about delivery as it is with everything you say to a girl.

 

[Zerro]

I think you can overdo it and come across as a complete tool.

Subtlety and mystery is effective. If you do make it overt, make sure you do it with a big cheeky grin and a wink.

Agreed, I see this often with a friend of mine who is always soooooo "alpha" that nobody takes him seriously. Show, don't tell.