"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Compliment and Walk away

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What do you guys think about this advice?

I found this tip from "Scott Patterson" on Youtube.

Apparentely, the idea is to approach a woman with confidence and give her a genuine compliment about something....typically something small or unusual that most guys wouldn't think to compliment her on...then Walk away.

I think you should check out this link
http://youtube.com/watch?v=lC_EKns9xbc&mode=related&search=

he does a lot better job of explaining it their.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ah theres only one way to find out man......field experience, it seems worth a try.
 
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Uh, if you are going to walk away right after you say it then it doesn't really matter what you say, now does it? For example you can do the same thing with better results if you simply walk up to every girl you see and say, "Would you like to have sex?" Most girls will say "eww gross", or "get lost" but if your lucky maybe one or more girls will say "yes"

If all you really want to do is get over the fear of talking to strangers then all you need to say is phrases like "Do you have the time", "nice weather we are having" and many more.

LOL after a bit of thought I should go and use the "Do you want to have sex line" It should quickly blast away all feelings of fear and rejection. I just need to make sure to do it in a place where nobody knows me. I wonder what the meanest response will be.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well the idea here isn't to just say anything and walk away. The idea here I think is to say something to intrique her and show a vague interest in her, then walk away taking your attention away with it with the hopes she'll chase.
 
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