Hindumagic
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Ok so there's this girl Jamie, who I have always had on a pedestal before i was introduced first to the book "the game" and eventually here, after this I was so excited with what seemed like a newfound power i went and got myself into a quasi-relationship with another girl Marie, don't ask why but i did. Now back to Jamie I've recently became really good freinds with her but only because we talk about how she likes a very good freind of mine who happens to be married so im constantly telling her how this will definatly not work and she knows it and claims to be over him, i feel like the crying shoulder. Bear with me i kno this post is slightly confusing, back when I had no concept of how to get girls (i now have only a slightly better understanding but its a big leap) apparently she had a crush on me i never picked up the ioi's and missed that chance, recently after we have bonded and i have gotten some kino in and she has reciprocated i told her that i used to have a crush on her. but thats not all a couple days later after slight escalation in kino I pulled a very afc move and told her i still liked her and in an even stupider move told her "i was kinda hoping you still liked me to" wow why would i say a thing like that well i dont know i might as well build a 100ft tall pedestal and put her at the top. By now im sure you realized that i have a case of oneitis if im still trying to game this girl maybe i do but i still want to try and least a little longer. Marie, doesn't matter much to me that sounds cruel but its not a formal relationship i kno she has hooked up with other people so w/e. So in an attempt to salvage my chance with Jamie i told her the next day that i was completly over her and in several comments that had her laughing i explained that Marie was the cure. Since then our relationship has been that of better freinds she still gives and takes kino flirts alot and i get the vibe that she likes me sometimes. For example her brother who is 23 and i happen to be really good freinds with was throwing a party, I didn't know about cause it was a weekday, but jamie invited me over and we spent the whole night like 11-5 flirting and drinking unfortunatly she was flirting with my married freind too (this i dont understand cause she seemed to be over him) but i couldn't isolate her and her brother was being pretty protective so the night ended and i went home. O yea i talk to her on the phone everyday for at least 30 mins to and hour just chit chat (LJBF'ed?). In religion class we have to choose one person to marry, today in school i asked her to marry me lol she said she was already marrying this other kid, but today on the phone she was like screw greg lets get married, Im confused any tips or suggestions would be greatly appreciated and please you dont need to tell me i have oneitis because i kno i do I dont want to ruin our freindship and just want to kno if there is a way i could take it a step further give it another week or so if i can't escalate im just gonna stop trying to game her and keep her as my freind and move on to better prospects but i really want this to work out, thanks for reading this whole thing i know its kinda long winded o yea we talk about sex quite a bit forgot to mention that thanks 