"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Compliance Test

ian1988

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Ok.. So watching the Pickup Artist....

in ep 4 when Joe.W does the compliance test with the girl where hes got both his palms out to her and she puts them on his... he raises and lowers his hands.. what is he actually looking for? Can someone please explain the whole routine to me?

And can someone finish of the number close for me

its a little anoying when Mystery and the team cut in when you are trying to get the jist of the interaction and you lose out on half of the set.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ligyron

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He's checking if her hands fall with his. If so, then she "passes." If her hands stay still while he lowers his, then she "fails" and it theoretically means she isn't all that attracted/connected to him. It's mostly for fun anyway, and not to be taken too seriously

In one of Mehow's videos, this is part of his "five-part trust test." I don't know if this is explained in detail anywhere, but (I think) the girl failed part four so we didn't get to see part five (if there was a part five).
 
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