Compliance and Progression

[Glassguy]

Just a friendly reminder that sex doesnt have to happen on date 1. Or date 2. Sometimes even date 3.

But how you set up the dates should make it easy to be light and fun, schematically allow the option for sex to happen and you should be escalating if you feel the vibe from her.

Its ok if you dont get in the sheets date 1.

But there should be progression. Any brake pumping by her means I soft contact and only respond to her initiating communication.

Date 1- Meet for drinks. Offer to pick her up. If she balks at picking her up, she had better be very friendly and probably sexual via text/phone call for me to show up. Set up the date so sex can happen (either close to her place or yours)

Date 2- You invite her over to your place to make dinner and drink wine. At this point if I feel a good vibe with her I might agree to another cheap drinks date if she brings that up. I would base that off how I feel about her.

Date 3- Its dinner and drink wine at my place. If she balks and wants to do dinner, I soft contact. If she reaches back out I do not even mention getting together. If she mentions it, its dinner and wine at my place. No counter offer.

Compliance- you being a man and making the date and leading. She is submissive and lets you lead.

Progression- from date 1 to date 2 and date 3, there should be physical escalation. If there is not, you need to be re-evaluating your time and how you are spending it.

There are some women that are morally inclined to not give it up on the first 3 dates. Thats fine, they like being pounded too. As long as there is progression its not going to take me longer that dates 3 or potentially 4 for that to happen.

Your time is valuable. Spend it wisely.

Happy Hunting

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Just a friendly reminder that sex doesnt have to happen on date 1. Or date 2. Sometimes even date 3.

But how you set up the dates should make it easy to be light and fun, schematically allow the option for sex to happen and you should be escalating if you feel the vibe from her.

Its ok if you dont get in the sheets date 1.

But there should be progression. Any brake pumping by her means I soft contact and only respond to her initiating communication.

Date 1- Meet for drinks. Offer to pick her up. If she balks at picking her up, she had better be very friendly and probably sexual via text/phone call for me to show up. Set up the date so sex can happen (either close to her place or yours)

Date 2- You invite her over to your place to make dinner and drink wine. At this point if I feel a good vibe with her I might agree to another cheap drinks date if she brings that up. I would base that off how I feel about her.

Date 3- Its dinner and drink wine at my place. If she balks and wants to do dinner, I soft contact. If she reaches back out I do not even mention getting together. If she mentions it, its dinner and wine at my place. No counter offer.

Compliance- you being a man and making the date and leading. She is submissive and lets you lead.

Progression- from date 1 to date 2 and date 3, there should be physical escalation. If there is not, you need to be re-evaluating your time and how you are spending it.

There are some women that are morally inclined to not give it up on the first 3 dates. Thats fine, they like being pounded too. As long as there is progression its not going to take me longer that dates 3 or potentially 4 for that to happen.

Your time is valuable. Spend it wisely.

Happy Hunting

Yep, well said. Progression and discovery are key in actually enjoying any interaction.

This was recently posted here which relates to your point:

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/new-approach-to-dating.272983/#post-2919071


Modern Man Advice

 

[EyeBRollin]

This is a good template. It is far more realistic than proclaiming 1st date sex or she’s history. I mostly followed the OPs template over the years.

 

[The Duke]

All about making forward progress towards the the goal line. It's up to you to setup good plays and move the ball down field to score. Whatever it takes.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Yes, progression is important. So is patience. Sometimes chicks might take a step back for a million reasons. Its cool as long as it ends being one step back and several forward. If no overall progress after some dates then yes, shes gone.

 

[Barrister]

Just a friendly reminder that sex doesnt have to happen on date 1. Or date 2. Sometimes even date 3.

But how you set up the dates should make it easy to be light and fun, schematically allow the option for sex to happen and you should be escalating if you feel the vibe from her.

Its ok if you dont get in the sheets date 1.

But there should be progression. Any brake pumping by her means I soft contact and only respond to her initiating communication.

Date 1- Meet for drinks. Offer to pick her up. If she balks at picking her up, she had better be very friendly and probably sexual via text/phone call for me to show up. Set up the date so sex can happen (either close to her place or yours)

Date 2- You invite her over to your place to make dinner and drink wine. At this point if I feel a good vibe with her I might agree to another cheap drinks date if she brings that up. I would base that off how I feel about her.

Date 3- Its dinner and drink wine at my place. If she balks and wants to do dinner, I soft contact. If she reaches back out I do not even mention getting together. If she mentions it, its dinner and wine at my place. No counter offer.

Compliance- you being a man and making the date and leading. She is submissive and lets you lead.

Progression- from date 1 to date 2 and date 3, there should be physical escalation. If there is not, you need to be re-evaluating your time and how you are spending it.

There are some women that are morally inclined to not give it up on the first 3 dates. Thats fine, they like being pounded too. As long as there is progression its not going to take me longer that dates 3 or potentially 4 for that to happen.

Your time is valuable. Spend it wisely.

Happy Hunting

Good road map - although I don't necessarily go with inviting her directly to my place on Date #2 unless Date #1 was very hot and heavy. I may make Date #2 another drinks date.

You said for Date 3 you do "dinner and drink wine" but then if she balks and "wants to do dinner" you soft contact. I assume you meant "go out to dinner" then you soft contact?

 

[Glassguy]

Good road map - although I don't necessarily go with inviting her directly to my place on Date #2 unless Date #1 was very hot and heavy. I may make Date #2 another drinks date.

You said for Date 3 you do "dinner and drink wine" but then if she balks and "wants to do dinner" you soft contact. I assume you meant "go out to dinner" then you soft contact?

No. Dinner at my place.

 

[BadBoy89]

Good post OP.

But 3 dates to have sex with a woman who is not a virgin and whose stock in crashing by the second? Thats too long.

My thought is: you gave it up for free when you were young and fertile to a guy who was genetically blessed, and now, when you are older and look worse, I have to spend money on you and wait?

Know it’s not realistic, but any girl who is not a virgin, the clothes better start coming off very fast. She would Be so lucky a guy is spending his time with her.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Good post OP.

But 3 dates to have sex with a woman who is not a virgin and whose stock in crashing by the second? Thats too long.

My thought is: you gave it up for free when you were young and fertile to a guy who was genetically blessed, and now, when you are older and look worse, I have to spend money on you and wait?

Know it’s not realistic, but any girl who is not a virgin, the clothes better start coming off very fast. She would Be so lucky a guy is spending his time with her.

I think you are on to something.