"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Completely obliterated contact with ex.

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Luthor Rex said:
So in answer to you question.... apparently you look like an idiot in her eyes.

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Yeah, imagine what she looks like in MY eyes right now. :woo:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ThunderMaverick said:
I learned if it truly isn't mutual then it's not worth fighting for. It hasn't even been more than two months and I'm still curious as hell about her. No, I haven't contacted her or visited her myspace or facebook or called or spoken to anyone she knew...etcetera...etcetera........

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This is the right way to go. Even a peek at her pages will trigger all your memories of her.
 
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