"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Completely ignoring this girl

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Hey all. Update on the shy girl: we've still talked up until a few days ago but we're not "going out" per se.

Heres the problem: When i go up to her at school, and her ****blocker friends are around she always makes them stay around. This has happened a few times and i dont take the bait, i just leave. I was going to call her on her bs, saying i want to talk to her alone and i told her friend to leave. IT PISSED ME OFF THAT THE GIRL PERSISTED HER FRIEND TO STAY AFTER I TOLD HER I WANTED TO TALK AND HER FRIEND SHOULD LEAVE. i just left, and i ignored her on msn and at school. she's put "fvck you" and stuff on her msn name trying to bait me into initiating the convo, but i dont. i actually never initiated a convo unless its in person.

I still like her, but i dont know my next move. If i keep ignoring it could ruin everything. sorry im AFC (damn the oneitis!!), any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You are an AFC with oneitis. I'm not going to tell you what you should do to get the chick. You must first learn that if you ever get her, she won't bring you happiness for long.

I suggest not talking to her and not thinking about her. She may initiate convo, then you can talk but keep ti short. Get over oneitis, its never good, and us telling you what to do will just make ti worse and worse.
 
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I used to have oneitis really bad. Than I stumbled upon this wonderful site and realized that there is more to life than women.

I used to be like you, I had a crush on the shy quiet really hot girl.

Than I realized that she was just a ***** and an attention *****, she always flirted with me but would just roll her eyes at me if I said hi to her when she was with her friends.

Finally I stopped talking to her and now she's been trying to get my attention in class. When I'm talking to another girl and she hears something I say she'll start laughing, and will do the stupid hair flip.

I can't stand girls like her, and it definatly sounds like you're dealing with an attention *****.

Don't take their ****, they're not worth it. If she pisses you off call her our on it, and put her in her place.
 
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