"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Complete shift in what I find attractive

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When I was younger i was the type who liked thick girls, big booties, and big boobs... some would even say a chubby chaser and i was proud of it. Always told my buddies that i like em thick etc etc.

Recently however this completely changed.. instead of big booties i find myself looking at lean and petite women. LoL even my porn categories have changed. from Big Asses to Petite.

No Idea how or why this happened.

anyone with the same experience?
and whats your type?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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My type has changed so many times I can hardly keep track. From blondes to brunettes, back to blondes, back to brunettes, to redheads, etc.

I notice I used to like thicker girls (not fat, but thicker) more than I do now - they had to have the big boobs, that was the main thing. Now I notice my attention strays more toward the petite. I actually think that this forum has had some influence in that, with its emphasis on fitness and being lean.
 

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i'm not sure if this forum caused it for me... i think A big girl really feels like dragging heavy luggage around now that i think of it:crackup:

before i would have no problem hitting on girls like this one

Now i would rather date a girl like this!
Nice and light
 

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My bad: Double post
 
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Yeah, I used to be into big booty hoes who were twerking and wh0ring themselves out. I'm into short and petite girls that have an innocent charm in them now.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ha, maybe one reason the short and petite girls are more appealing now is because they are rarer than they used to be. Weren't that many fat girls around when I was growing up, and the thicker girls back then weren't as thick, lol.

I used to get kind of creeped out by girls who were too thin. Sometimes it came into my mind that when having sex with them, they kind of reminded me of spiders with their long thin limbs. Now days very thin girls are such a rarity, it makes them seem more attractive.
 

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I've always liked the slim, somewhat athletic, types. However, sometimes it depends on the woman, other attributes can come into play. As a total outlier from my normal type: Nicki Minaj can definitely get it.
 

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MidnightCity said:
any girl that passes the boner test can get it.

never understood this manosphere worship of slim girls
This.

While I have a favorite type, I am attracted to a variety of women. Different women have different things that are sexy about them.
 

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Dated this thick booty girl once, on one of the dates we went to see a movie. But the place was packed. Luckily still found two free seats near the middle.

you know how the arms of the seats have cup holders at the end.. well the person next to my date's seat had her drink in the cup holder. When my date sat down her ass must have caught the drink and mashed it. Soda was spilling everywhere.
people giggling, others susshing, my date apologizing and offering to buy another drink.. hate to admit i felt embarrassed.. stopped seeing her after a few more dates.

I still think they are great for a ons/fb or twerking.. but for anything else they are impractical lol
 
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