"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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whoa! this is exactly what I need rite naw. I do a lot of the stuff already, but this lays out what I should do next quite nicely.

I have never heard of this jelqing thing... Is this for real ?
Jelqing is for real, but it isn't the only thing you should do. Jelqing improves thickness, but does little for length. Also, you should exercise your PC muscle, you can do it almost anywhere and it can only help you in the long run.


Anyway, thanks for this awsome post, I'm gonna get started on this right away. Even though this post is monstrous, its definatly going on my Wall Of Inspiration™.

Regardz,
Capone
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sweet post...I didn't read through all of it, just glanced through it...It goes good with my post (The High Experiment).


The surfie look is a good look and many chicks like it, you have a surfie chain, sunnies, and shorts and t-shirt/singlet on most of the time. You look pretty stupid if your not tanned while trying to portray the surfie look.
I didn't even think about it untlil now but this is how I normaly dress. And because of my indian blood I have a slight bit of a natural tan :D

Also keep in mind when you chose how you dress about the local styles (not that you should go with them, infact it's usualy good to dress differently from everyone (it makes ya stand out ;) ) as the if you may accidently end up dressing in a way were you're seen as a dork (oops :rolleyes: ).

When you get schoolwork, make sure that YOU DO IT ALL! The minute you get back from school study your notes and do any homework/assignments youve got, and do it properly! On weekends spend 30-60 minutes each day studying some of the more difficult stuff. Think of the long term to motivate yourself for this.
YES!...i totaly agree with this, no chick wants a dumbazz

Sweet post dude :cool:
 

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am I the only one who is chewing a ****load of gum? lol. Honestly tho, look at any sex icon from Tom Cruise to Taye Diggs and you'll notice they all have go jawline, it just seems masculine and stand out for girls I guess

Nice post Sammo
 

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Thanks alot guys, seeing all these positive replies really motivates me. It's been rumbling around here for a while now i was wondering if one of the mods could please move this to the tips forum? Thanks.
 

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yes^

Originally posted by Sammo
Physical Improvement

a)Hair

[*]Head hair

While rock stars and celebrities continue to be hairstyle leaders, many male hairstyle trends are generated right on the fashion runways of New York and Milan. Lets have a look at some of the more popular trends.

Curly Bad Boy Look

This curly "bad boy" style only works well for males who have either naturally curly hair or who are willing to have their hair permed or curled. To achieve the wild curly "bad boy" look, you need to have an abundance of thick hair. This hairstyle does not work with thin or receding hair. If you have enough hair, you're a good candidate for this look. If you want to achieve this wild look and your hair is naturally curly, make sure that your hair is well conditioned and/or moisturized.
Great post man. I Just got a question-how long does your hair have to be to go for the curling perm? About 2 inches? less? more? and after its done, would it look like ginuwines hair?:
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B00000I926.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg
http://www.wild987.com/gallery/lds5-ginuwine/119_1973
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by dip
yes^



Great post man. I Just got a question-how long does your hair have to be to go for the curling perm? About 2 inches? less? more? and after its done, would it look like ginuwines hair?:
http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B00000I926.01.LZZZZZZZ.jpg
http://www.wild987.com/gallery/lds5-ginuwine/119_1973
Thanks mate, i never had enough hair to go for this look so i can't tell you that much about it. Your best bet would be to ask a hairdresser for advice and show him those pictures.
 

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Jelqing works, but...

Jelqing works, but don't expect it to work overnight. A good sight for more info is www.peforum.net

From a long time lurker, seldom poster.
 

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**bump**

Nice post Sammo! I see you've been making impressive improvments. Good work.

I'm also impressed with how you gave thanks and didnt take credit.. but modestly gave it to someone else. Signs of a great leader. I say, give credit where credit is due.... and you did an excelent job. Keep this all up, and you'll some day become an impressive icon in business.
 

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Originally posted by Kaizen
**bump**

Nice post Sammo! I see you've been making impressive improvments. Good work.

I'm also impressed with how you gave thanks and didnt take credit.. but modestly gave it to someone else. Signs of a great leader. I say, give credit where credit is due.... and you did an excelent job. Keep this all up, and you'll some day become an impressive icon in business.
:D thanks mate, come on aim we need to catch up.
 

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Sammo for mod! :D

BTW, I thought you weren't coming on this site till after the New Year buddy?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by NEWBIE101
Sammo for mod! :D

BTW, I thought you weren't coming on this site till after the New Year buddy?
:) I haven't fully unloaded all the stuff ive learnt yet, ill be silent once again when i have. ;)
 

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well-deserved bump
 

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SAMMO great post thanks so much really helps especially since it's summer so time to improve.
 

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SAMMO great post thanks so much really helps especially since it's summer so time to improve.
Its always time to improve, not just the summer ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Sammo
Physical Improvement

Curly Bad Boy Look

This curly "bad boy" style only works well for males who have either naturally curly hair or who are willing to have their hair permed or curled. To achieve the wild curly "bad boy" look, you need to have an abundance of thick hair. This hairstyle does not work with thin or receding hair. If you have enough hair, you're a good candidate for this look. If you want to achieve this wild look and your hair is naturally curly, make sure that your hair is well conditioned and/or moisturized.


When I read this I got excited, cause I've really been struggling to find a unique, sexy hairstyle for myself. My hair is naturally curly (not tight curls like ginuwine) and every time I get a haircut the lady compliments me on how amazingly thick it is. can you show me pictures of this look? or was ginuwine it?
 

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BUMP! And why isn't this stickied!?!?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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