"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Complacency, comfort zones, laziness, unadventurous

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com·pla·cen·cy
n.
A feeling of contentment or self-satisfaction, especially when coupled with an unawareness of danger, trouble, or controversy.
An instance of contented self-satisfaction

My problem... and most of yours as well.

I am a lazy son of a b!tch. I suffer from chronic breaks. I LOVE procrastination. A comfortable cruise is great, just sitting there, watching things go by, like an old man on a porch. I love to relax, even if there was no stress. If I have no plans, I WILL sleep for 16 hours, wake up take a shower and watch TV until I want to go to sleep.

I know only lazy people are going to read this... and none of them will care because it is WAYYY too much work to put any effort at all into these kinds of thoughts.

So take this as a rant, complacency is bliss.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'd rather put a gun to my head and pull the trigger than live like that. Honest to god.
 

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I used to be like this. I'd sit at home and play video games and watch TV while the world was passing by me. Hell, I had girls asking why someone like me doesn't go out and have fun.

Meet some new people, take a few risks. It might feel uncomfortable at first to go out to clubs and such and meet new people, but once you get some outgoing people to hang around with, your whole perspective on life is going to change.

2 years later, I'm in college and I find it hard to go a night without going out and mingling with ladies or even guys (No I'm not gay). Grow a pair and takes some risks. It's well worth it in the long run
 
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