"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hi. im new to the forum. I've read the bible and ive searched the forum but i still haven't solved my problem, I'm seeing this girl and ive told her that I liked her, and she likes me too, but she also likes this other guy. i'm not sure how to get rid of this guy, I'm sure that im a better guy than him It's just worrying because it seems that he's trying to compete with me.

Cheers to anyone who can help :)

Adam
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi. im new to the forum. I've read the bible and ive searched the forum but i still haven't solved my problem, I'm seeing this girl and ive told her that I liked her, and she likes me too, but she also likes this other guy. i'm not sure how to get rid of this guy, I'm sure that im a better guy than him It's just worrying because it seems that he's trying to compete with me.

Cheers to anyone who can help

Adam
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Thats the prob. ur insecure, ur worried she might date the other guy and it probaly shows right through ur body language when ur with her. Also I learned to never i mean NEVER tell a girl u like/love her straight up. Let her wonder, find out for herself.(keepin her interest.) but dont sweat it man theyll come around, they always do in the mean time try to not get so stressed and have alittle fun with her. Show her u dominate her, u got options, and u can kick her ass to the curve if ur not satisfied. LIghten up and smile alittle 2. Peace
 
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