"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the_azn_fu

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theres is always going to be some guy trying to get at the same girl as you right?
what do YOU do then? try to compete and make the girl feel like she is the prize or what? because from the things i've read, it sounds like the girls should NOT be the prize. thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Anomalous

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Didn't you make an exact thread 2 days ago!

I get what your saying, but if you act like she is trying to hit on you, she will come to you while your antagonist is putting her on a pedalstall and worshiping her.

The Game: If You Chase Your Shadow, You Will Never Catch It. If You Turn Your Back To It, It Will Follow


Vrais hommes sarge.
 

dannowillbookem

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sitting there, she expects the game. you two, trying to get her. when you dont try and "get" her, you send her into confusion. suddenly the guy to her right is acting like shes just another average chick who he'd pay little mind to, and the guy to the left keeps on trying to flirt with her. she thinks but god....this guy on the right isnt giving himself over to the game? whats wrong? i have to win him! i have to win his approval!!!

and that, my friends, is how this site was started.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PumpingIron13

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Dont ignore her completly however, spit game but be less desparate about her, ignoring her completly could make her feel that your not brave enought to approach her.
 

dannowillbookem

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PumpingIron13 said:
Dont ignore her completly however, spit game but be less desparate about her, ignoring her completly could make her feel that your not brave enought to approach her.
well of course body language, eye contact shiit like that and asking her name shaking her hand when you meet her but then pull off some. its a fine line
 

Mr. Debonaire

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The best way to act is interested, but without desperation. You give off the idea that your interested in her through body language, but through words you show that if you don't get together you'll just shrug her off and find someone else.

Ignoring them completely eithers shows cowardice or makes the girl think your not interested at all, meaning if your arch nemesis over there has any game at all he's going to be taking her home.
 

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Sir, I have the easiest and probably fundamental answer... go to this great website... if I remember it's... www.sosuave.com . It offers previous tips on how to stand out (positively) from other guys. I suggest the DJBible... :rock:
 
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