"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Competition on her crush and DJ apprentice

whir

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ok guys kinda need your guidance hir..well ive been attracted to this cool chick so usuall I did my moves..

Alpha projection Flirting, being a challenge, being funny, kino, neg hit, making her comfortable getting connection etc...I throw it all...and I have to say i think im doing ok...

Ive got her number she being receptive to my kino and there was even a time I wishpered to her ear and I let my breath softly touch her neck and she gigles..she laugh to all my jokes even though its not that funny....and were making straight eye contact a lot..so you see I make a certain girl who has no interest on me be interested to me somhow....

and sudenly somthing happened...

She went to some place and she sees her crush... I dont know the rest of the story but I heard she said they exchange numbers and even to decided to hang together..

well she told me this because im playing it right and i did not confess my feelings to her because I want to play things right so she is still in the state (friends)did not sure if I like her or not so she casually tell me that she saw her crush and decided to hang togeter with him somtime...

how can i compete to her crush man...obviously the guy has already have advantages like good looks..and of corz confidence...

but i think i have also my secret waepon and its you guys...lolz

so what should i do to win this competition guys?..thanx
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HoneyHitter

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Simple. Get kino with other HBs and dont give a ****.
Don't let her think she already owns you.

The other guy is NOT the problem. The problem is inside her head.
 

donpepot

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aVoid to cling with her dont feel presured and loose composure and stance youre stance keep your intentions vauge and take it easy...

the guy might be her crush but somhow you made her to feel somthing from you(well not that serious but atleast she feels somthing)..

She already feel your sexual desires as you mentioned on kinoaand she already experince your attention and your company...

I think what you should do is now is the thing called "earth quake"

just sudenly take it all away ..all the atnetion all the thing that you give to her and make her feel good about her self..dont call her for a while,,
but if she did try your best to make it fun and exciting but show that youre busy and you gotta go nicley and your fun talking to her...

dont call her let her do all the calling...after the third call ask her for the date and kino her like mad...if you kiss her the guy she had crush on loose
 

Kings_royalty

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how can i compete to her crush man...obviously the guy has already have advantages like good looks..and of corz confidence...


Sounds like you are putting this guy up on a pedistal bro.

You may have got her interested, but it doesn't sound like you did enough to pull her in. Kino, flirting, neg hit doesn't amount to much if you do not continue to escalate, if infact that is what you wanted.

She either mentioned her 'crush' because...

1. She wants to get you jealous (get a reaction)
2. She wants you to step it up a notch
3. She is going to cut if off with you

Don't ever 'compete' for any girls attention bro, that is bull$hit. It makes you look like a chump #1, and #2 it will give her ego a shot of adrenaline (you don't want that).

If you want her to get sucked into your world, you need to disappear for a while. If she wants to hang out with her 'crush', say 'o.k., that's cool, have a good time.' Show her that it 'does not' bother you.

Once she starts knocking on your door, THAT is when you escalate things, take things to the next level and quickly. No more of this kino flirty $hit, step it up.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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