"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Competition from another guy... sort of.

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Hmm I dunno your post comes off as "cuz it comes natural to me" when really you are probably not at that stage yet. Why else would you post a thread unless you had some insecurity over this issue?

Anyway back to the topic: Teasing the girl and not closing by the 3rd date? You are getting the girl horny yet not closing?

There is a timer on the interaction dawg. You act too quickly- she's gone. You act too slow- she's gone. You should have pulled the trigger on the 2nd date.

Go for it this weekend. Sorry for the harsh feedback but there are some holes in your game. Good luck.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sik, that was a great story, lol.

Sofomore said:
Hmm I dunno your post comes off as "cuz it comes natural to me" when really you are probably not at that stage yet. Why else would you post a thread unless you had some insecurity over this issue?

Anyway back to the topic: Teasing the girl and not closing by the 3rd date? You are getting the girl horny yet not closing?

There is a timer on the interaction dawg. You act too quickly- she's gone. You act too slow- she's gone. You should have pulled the trigger on the 2nd date.

Go for it this weekend. Sorry for the harsh feedback but there are some holes in your game. Good luck.
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Oh bro, I am no master, I have a few holes in my game, and I do have insecurities... I just don't show them! But I make up for it with charisma, intelligence, humor, confidence, etc--and this girl is really into me, gets more attached every date and I haven't screwed her in the month we've been seeing each other. In this instance not screwing her makes her like me even more just based on how I've been going about it and gradually and slowly building everything up. It's like I'm making her work extra hard for it, and it strangely works. Maybe it was because we were friends before this, I dunno. But like I've said, I've found that as long as you bring a woman into your world, you can do pretty much anything you want with more leeway. At least that's what I've found in this instance, and this girl is easily a HB9+.

Any of you guys have any tips on closing this out if she resists or says she's not ready? I haven't experienced a girl doing this in forever, but I have drilled it into her head that we are going to take things slow, and I have been moving slow. She could also be afraid that I'm going to screw her and leave, which I'm not, and that could cause a problem as well. How would I get past that resistance road block?
 
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Did the deed. And all was right with the world.

Thanks for the encouragement gentlemen. :)
 
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