"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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COMPETITION #1 June 13 - June 20

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As i was driving around my suburb this sunday night, i got an idea for some little competition that should bring a little more excitement around here.

Here is the first contest. It lasts from Monday, June 13, 2005, till June 20th, 2005. Here are the rules:

Everyone who enters the competition is to go out and try to get as many numbers as you can. This HAS to be girls you've never met before, so mostly cold approaching is required.
Everyday you will post a report, stating WHERE you made the approaches, RATING of the girl. Write down your total number every day. At the end of this week the numbers will be added and the winner of the COMPETITION #1 will be announced.

Here is the deal: THE GIRL, when you call her, MUST recognize who you are. You can not walk around the mall and just ask for numbers without any communication. Built some rapport so she remembers who you are.


I am very excited to see how everyone will be doing. I know there are guys out there who are sitting on the couches watching TV when the weather is beautiful and girls are plenty.

So grab your balls, enter the competition, and let's see how you measure up.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im fine with this. Like I said, Im back into mass approaching, so you guys got youre work cut out for ya against me :p
 

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aight, well today was day 1.

I ended up talking to more than 200 people today...however that didnt matter much with this. One girl had a good convo going with me, but it seemed she was much more interested in another guy who works with me.. i found out she just moved to my city, and has no one to hang out with...so i was about to go for it when she suddenly turned around, said bye and left... almost like she sensed it ;)

After work i had to go to the gym with 3 friends... plenty of girls here but most 21+ with their boyfriend or husbands.. started talking to a girl with a great butt... she moved on before i could get anything going.

We were all tired as hell afterwards so just had fun joking about girls and trading stories...


So i got a 0 so far... come on, join in, you know you can get more than 0! ;)
 

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I'm not in a good situation to win, but I got a number today.

I was just finishing up at work, door-to-door sales, and I was flirting with the girl working at the gas station just outside of my territory where I would go for breaks. I asked her to call the bus for me at the end of the shift, and she told me it was like 3 min.

I saw this cute girl (6-7), she probably could have been more, just waiting. I finished the coffee I was drinking just as the bus turned the corner. I looked around for a garbage can, and found one in the bus, I made a comment about it towards the girl, and she gave me a good vibe.

We talked for a little bit, then when my stop rolled up I told her to give me her number, and she did.

Tomorrow is my roommates b-day party, so I'll be sure to go out in full force tomorrow.

I hope you at least started this thread on sunday, unless you were trying to give yourself an unfair advantage... hmmm??
 

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Knowing people like I do, I have a feeling there is gona be AT LEAST one pesron who Is going to over exadurate his succes to win approval of people he don't even know.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So far i am seeing a lot of opinions and no actual Field reports. Everyone should be posting DAILY with the numbers, even if you didnt get any numbers... for example:


today. It seems like lady luck wants to joke around with me.

Went to the biggest mall in USA, dressed to impress.. a lot of looks, especially from girls 20-24 (strangely..)

I just got into the groove when i get a call from a girl i met last weekend. She wants to hang out, so do i. I tell her to meet me at the mall. Until she got there, i decided to see what i can do... no good looking girls anywhere... wtf?

She gets there and as soon as we start walking around, beautiful girls everywhere! I talked to a couple, but since i got that girl with me i didnt go further than light flirting...

Brought her back to my place and had pretty good time.. she just left and i gotta go to bed...

STILL at 0, which is irritating me because there were at least 3 girls i was definately interested in that i couldnt do anything about.. im planning on returning soon and hitting up those girls again (some work there).


So i got a big 0, still for now, and the only one besides so scary who is posting...

tony, where are you?
 

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Ok, so 1 from the other day.

Tuesday - I went to the bar, at one point I walk past the coat check girl to get to the washroom. She smiled at me, I went to the washroom, came back, she smiled again... DONE!

Two guys were about to start scrapping when the gf got me to hold them back from each other, her friend comes around to thank me for the help after.... DONE!

Wednesday - I take a break at work at a coffee shop in my territory, we talked for a while and she started acting interested in what I had to say.... DONE!

Today - I'm coming back from the office, on the train I was sitting across from this cute girl, made a comment about the lack of leg room in between the chairs... DONE!

So, I'm at 5 for the week... shyte I'm gonna have to start calling these girls now.
 
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