communication

[Zerotwoonenine]

hey guys i am in my first year in 6th form college. I used to go to a high school and i have always found this problem i have when communicating with people. Usually i rarely findly a person who can talk with me for a long time, even with guys. I have read all the tips about how to talk to girls and initiate a conversation, like keep asking questions and various other posts. I am quite a outgoing person, but i am a sort of a quiet person, you know the kind which are intelligent and always thinks to himself; therefore when i talk to a girl the converstation quickly runs dry because most girls are not into the things i am into, i go to a private school where everyone is quite focused on thier studying(its also an all boy school ), so all the conversation you hear is: hey hows the maths,chem,bio etc going, how much revision have you done, why is the earth round... and its just all generally very boring. So can anyone who is a naturally a good conversationist give me some help about what topics are easy when talking to a girl, what do girls generally enjoy talking about and give me some examples.
Much appreciated:rock:

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

comon people i have been helping lots of other DJs, yet no one helps me, i cant believe this...

 

[shydude]

When talking to guys, you should never care what you say, you should say whatever is on your mind. When talking to girls, you make sure you dont offend them, you make sure the stuff that comes out of your mouth, comes out the way you want it too. I always used to talk crap with guys, no one cared, when I started talking to girls I used same technique i used with guys, but I did huge mistake, not becouse i was Confident, but becouse I used to say things that effected her. When you flirt with women you better make sure she gets your message the right way, and the most common thing to do, is give her a simple smile when you flirt.


And you should always be full of confidence, never think what others think about you, never ask yourself questions what others think, ask yourself what you should think.

Imagine yourself as a rock star, imagine every one wants you, everyone needs you.

Walk the road proudly. Always be proud of yourself. Y
You cant succeed unless you fail!!!! Never hesitate to talk with women, no matter what your mood, whats hers, never take things to seriously, never take rejects seriously. You will get rejected more times than you will succeed, and learn from the rejections. Live everyday like there is no tomorow, never be afraid to things, those who are afraid, they will never feel what happiness is, and you dont wanna be one of them.

When approaching any women, any time, anywhere, you should look at the suroundings, examin her, then when you approach her, you act confident like its your job to do that, then you compliment her, ask her questions, ask her for help, talk to her about anything. If she will be into you, you cant fail, becouse you already succeded. When you approach a women, YOU ALREADY SUCCEEDED, all it takes now, is to get her number or to get another rejection once again.

Practice makes it perfect

 

[oakraiderz2]

Stop being boring and living up to some "standard". Get new hobbies, learn new things, stay in tuned to a variety of things. The girls might be intrigued by the samethings as you, but maybe they want to talk about something more exciting. Your job is to entertain them and yourself. Theres no need to act so serious. Most of the time when i talk to people i say stupid **** and never use the tone of voice i use when im being more serious. Just relax, loosen your tie and chill.

 

[Zerotwoonenine]

thanks guys i will keep that i mind. I just want to say that i am not new to the game, its just my communication skills has always been abit rusty and that got me rejected. I will keep practicing