Communication

[jhonny9546]

The Communication Dilemma

So I notice on pretty much every non-redpill relationship/dating advice forum, they all talk about ‘communication’ like it’s the end all, be all of solving relationship problems. But what about about in the case of a dead bedroom? I just don’t see it as a feasible option when it comes to things...

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Connecting back to the original post, this post expresses real things, and with the aim of always finding "in media stat virtus," a proper measure in things, how do you interpret communication with women correctly?
There will be times when women will want to know and will say to you, "But what do you feel for me?" or "I feel this for you," or "You make me feel this way," or "I feel good with you."
But the hardest part is when they do this to understand how invested you are in them and when they ask you direct questions like "So, who are you to me?" or "What do you feel for me?" What would be the right way to respond or to steer the conversation towards another topic and make her feel excited (whether it’s a laugh or something else)?
Additionally, reconnecting with the original post, what is the correct way to communicate without being too invested or too distant? Being formal and sometimes a bit "playful."

 

[Serenity]

The best way to understand these things is to operate on feelings yourself, logic doesn't work here.

"But what do you feel for me?"

Can't you see?

"I feel this for you," or "You make me feel this way," or "I feel good with you."

Thanks.

"So, who are you to me?"

Doesn't matter as long as it's good.

The thing with all of these questions is that you don't verbalize it, you show her the answers through your actions with her. So these verbal answers are just stupidly simple. How you feel for her should be fvcking obvious through your actions, so getting this question might tell you that you're not clearly showing her that you like her.

You making her feel good things is basically just compliments, say thanks. It's also feedback that you're doing it right.

Who you are to her is a way to force putting a label on it and figure out where you stand. Center her back on the feeling and remind her that it's good, implying that pushing this question now could ruin that good thing. It might be her way of saying she's ready for more commitment, or it could mean she just wants to affirm that you're not going in that direction. You'll need other contextual clues to determine which one it is, depends what she's really after.