"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Common Myths Of The Dating Game

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Here's the main one in my opinion:

"Target girls without boyfriends because they are single and searching, don't waste your time with girls who are already hooked up."

IMO it's a fallacy that girls who are single are much easier than those who are hooked up. I think often an attractive single girl means she has rejected her options (unlike the taken girls who did actually hook up) and thus is more picky. In addition, to pull a taken girl often you'll only need to be better than her bf (in her view anyway). But with a single girl she will often expect something overly good at times, especially if she's rejected her options thus far. I think if a guy becomes good at playing around the bf thing, there's scope for success there.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonGorgon said:
Silly cause most women are rarely single but often cheat...
Yes, but the single ones are seen as more realisic prospect-wise than the taken ones, but is that really the case?

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