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Common Meals/Foods you Eat!?

DarkLight

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Sup All!

So I was wondering what foods/meals most of you eat regularly!?

I think a big hindrance to most people's fitness is their lack of knowledge in regards to proper diet. I know its probably my biggest sticking point. As eating some random sh!t thats easily accesible is just the only thing thats available in some moments.

So maybe the collective foods/meals mentioned here, would bring some light to others and more unthought of options for a healthier diet.
(I'd also think seeing the commonalities, would be of great value)

All responses appreciated.
 

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Right on Espi.
This is what I'm lookin for.

Do you also have a cutting diet? (or anything of like)

Everyone else please list their foods/meals as well.
Then all anyone has to do, is read this thread to get an overall understanding of healthy diet, and the foods it consists of. Also they can mix and match from everyone's variety, and/or learn from the value of the commonalities.
Cheers'
 

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Natural peanut butter and honey on whole wheat or multigrain toast - on some days when I am too busy to cook, that is all I eat.

Also, imo, the best cheap and healthy meal from a convenience store is the 50 cent packages of roasted peanuts and bottled water (not Dasani - it's salt water).
 

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Right on.

I like all the food/meal ideas thus far. Good to have some creative options in mind to incorporate.

I heard roasted peanuts aren't the way to go though. As the roasting kills alot of the natural enzymes, that would be the most beneficial health wise. Lightly salted (or unsalted) and natural is the way to go.

Keep the ideas coming. good sh!t!
 

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My current diet:

7am Wake
40g Whey in water

7:15
10 egg whites scrambled
3 cups cream of rice/oatmeal
3 rice cakes
1 apple

10:15
200g skinless grilled chicken breast
1 cup grits
170g yams
1 cup steamed asparagus

13:15
200g water packed tuna
1 cup brown rice
1 cup sliced cucumber

16:15
200g perch fillet
1 cup barley
170g baked potato
1 cup steamed green beans
1 green banana

17:15
Train

18:15
40g whey in water
40g Dextrose

19:15
200g pork tenderloin
1 cup brown rice
170g sweet baked potato
1 cup peas

22:15
10 egg whites scrambled
1 cup cream of rice/oatmeal
10ml flaxseed oil

Calories: 4,700
Protein: 350-360g
Carbohydrates: 525-550g
Fat: 60-65g

Nutritional value is fairly sketchy but yeah.
 

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And here's a list of foods you should be consuming daily/weekly:

CARBOHYDRATES
Oats
Broccoli
Sweet Potato
Muller Light Yoghurt
Skimmed Milk
Fiber Rich Vegetables
Wholegrain Bread
Basmati/Long Grain Rice
Whole-wheat Pasta
Wholemeal Pitas
Spinach
Apples
Pears
Oranges
Peaches
Plums
New Boiled Potatoes
Yams
Muesli (natural no sugar added)
Natural bean soups
Herbal teas
Chickpeas
Split beans
Black beans
Tonic water
Barley
Mustard


PROTEINS
Chicken (skin & bones removed) breast
Lean Red Meat
Tuna
Mackerel
Salmon
Low Fat Cottage Cheese
Quark
Turkey (skinless)
Sardines
Kippers
Whey Protein shakes
Veal
Venison
Soya Milk
Tofu
Quorn
Tempeh
Low fat Yoghurts
Lentils
Seeds
Egg Whites
Shellfish
Buttermilk
Bacon back
Instone Puddings

GOOD FATS (EFAs)
Olives
Olive Oil
Flax Seeds
Flax Oil
Almonds
Cashews
Nut Butters(hazel/almond/cashew/peanut)
Fatty Fish (kippers/sardines/mackerel/salmon)
Avocados
Nut Oils
Columbus Eggs
Seeds
Macadamia nuts
UDOs Oil
 

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Espi, I think you're eating 300% the recommended saturated fats and cholesterol JUST from those 6 eggs your eating...it should be the other way round. ONLY eat the eggwhites. The yolk will kill you.
 

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Nothing set, but the main part of my diet is chicken. I always keep the freezer stocked up with boneless, skinless chicken. For $1.99lb when its on sale, I buy several pounds worth. ^^

Chicken fried rice w/ stir fry
Chicken Cesear Salad
Spegheti and meat
Baked Chicken w/random canned/frozen vegies (corn, peas, asparageas, etc)
Pancakes and eggs
Peanut Butter and Jelly sandwitches
Pork chops (once and a while)
Tuna/salmon salad sandwitches
Footlong sub from subway once a week...kind...varies

Normaly have with some Arizona Green Tea or water. I might have soda once a week or so at most...alcohol once a week also. Not the healthiest diet, but nothing to bad. I snack on sweets a couple times a week, but other then that I don't bother.
 

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Instead of those gross egg whites, I eat Egg Beaters--full eggs, but with no fat, and they taste like normal eggs. You can get them at any grocery store.
 

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Fender said:
Espi, I think you're eating 300% the recommended saturated fats and cholesterol JUST from those 6 eggs your eating...it should be the other way round. ONLY eat the eggwhites. The yolk will kill you.
Oh dear.
 

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Wait, which is the good part of the egg? The yolk (the yellow) or the egg white (the white section).
 

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The egg white is the 'good' part for us to consume. The yolk is where all the cholesterol and fats and stuff are. That is the part that would become the chicken. The egg whites are the nutrients that would feed the offspring.



I think...
 

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I mix oatmeal with peanut butter and honey. Bananas are good with it as well, or any other fruit, like frozen blueberries, which are also a great snack by themselves.
 

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My current diet (I'm trying to drop the BF for T&F atm):

Meal 1: Morning Pre Training (4:30 – 5:30AM)

2 scoops (1/2 serving) of Cytosport’s Cytogainer
1 cup of skim milk

Meal 2: Breakfast (7:00AM)

2 whole eggs (poached)
2 slices of WW bread
1 cup of low fat milk

Meal 3: Mid-Morning Meal (10:45AM)

1 Homemade Protein Bars
1 apple

Meal 4: Lunch (1:00PM)

1 tuna pasta salad

Meal 5: Afternoon Snack (3:30PM)

1 scoop of protein powder
½ cup of rolled oats
1 serving of Low GI fruit

Meal 7: Dinner (7:00 – 7:30PM)

1 lean cut of meat (chicken/fish)
Mixed Vegies

Meal 8: Pre Bed (9:00PM – 9:30PM)

1 serving of Cottage Cheese
1 scoop of protein powder
1 tbsp of Natural Peanut Butter
 

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I just fill my fridge with ground beef and chicken and eat lots of cans of tuna and eggs.

I probably have a whey shake with every meal. Lots of times i put olive oil or flaxseeds in it. I try to stick some vegetables in along with a few meals a day... usually broccoli or spinach.

typical meals are some combination of

whey,tuna, olive oil or ground flaxseed
whey, 2 or 3 beef patties
whey, chicken, oatmeal
whey, tuna, whole grain bread
whey, 4 hard-cooked eggs (with yolks, ya pansies)

an apple and/or banana somewhere in there with the other carbs...

Post workout meal is something like
2.5 scoops whey, green gatorade mix, 3g creatine ethyl ester, glutamine peptides, apple juice. My green apple surprise! The surprise is that glutamine doesn't mix for crap and floats on the top and tastes like poo. But once I drink off the top layer it's good.


Then my before bed meal is a mix of
whey, egg white protein powder, calcium caseinate


I also take a multivitamin/multimineral and a separate 1000mg tablet of vit c.

I probably get too much protein from whey, but... oh well. I buy it 50 lbs at a time and i don't really have time to cook any more meat.. i'm rarely at home.
 

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I just had this for breakfast:

Microwave some oats with a small amount of water, making some thick oatmeal. Then add as much cinnamon as you can stand and some natural peanut butter. Sweeten to taste with a little molasses, honey, or sugar in the raw.

The meal is a little low on protein, but it goes well with a protein shake. The oatmeal-cinnamon-peanut butter combination is packed with antioxidants, nutrients, and other beneficial plant compounds that fight cancer and heart disease.
 

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