"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Common interests... do you need them?

RedGTP

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I agree. It's too bad most women on the internet that I've met are more interested in asking me "so, what do you do for fun?" The one that dropped me in my original post told me "we're coming form two different worlds" and I told her "yeah, you're looking for an activity partner (friend) and I'm looking for a romantic partner (lover)." Then she blocked me, LOL.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vulpine

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How many times have you read: "... I enjoy curling up on the couch with a good book..."?

Women don't seem like it when you offer a compromise of playing video games while she reads.

Well, I enjoy curling up on the couch with a good woman and making out, is that close enough?

No. The fact is, a lot of women's "hobbies" are things that guys just don't care to do. I find it laughable that women scrutinize potential lovers based on these common "interests". I can crochet. Does that mean I'm going to sit around crocheting doilies with a woman? No, I don't care to, nor do I care to allocate the time to.

Oddly enough, some of the things I do I can do far better than women I meet can. Take cooking as an example. I haven't met a woman who can cook better than I can. Common interest? Get the heck out of my way when I'm in the kitchen. Making a box of maccaroni and cheese doesn't count as "cooking".
 

Bonhomme

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Very good one, RedGTP! :crackup:
 
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