“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Common interests... do you need them?

RedGTP

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I agree. It's too bad most women on the internet that I've met are more interested in asking me "so, what do you do for fun?" The one that dropped me in my original post told me "we're coming form two different worlds" and I told her "yeah, you're looking for an activity partner (friend) and I'm looking for a romantic partner (lover)." Then she blocked me, LOL.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Vulpine

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How many times have you read: "... I enjoy curling up on the couch with a good book..."?

Women don't seem like it when you offer a compromise of playing video games while she reads.

Well, I enjoy curling up on the couch with a good woman and making out, is that close enough?

No. The fact is, a lot of women's "hobbies" are things that guys just don't care to do. I find it laughable that women scrutinize potential lovers based on these common "interests". I can crochet. Does that mean I'm going to sit around crocheting doilies with a woman? No, I don't care to, nor do I care to allocate the time to.

Oddly enough, some of the things I do I can do far better than women I meet can. Take cooking as an example. I haven't met a woman who can cook better than I can. Common interest? Get the heck out of my way when I'm in the kitchen. Making a box of maccaroni and cheese doesn't count as "cooking".
 

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Very good one, RedGTP! :crackup:
 
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