"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Common dumb things that sound smart

Trainwreck

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1) Buying a house for the wrong reasons.

2) Getting degrees for education benefits only

3) women

4) Rejecting the idea of leasing a car

5) Buying something off of credit in hoping to improve your credit score

6) Getting married based off love

7) Having children because you want to be moral(not having abortion, want to populate the earth, and etc)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1) Buying a house for the wrong reasons.

Plenty just think about the mortgage interest deduction lol. Taking out a mortgage just to get an interest deduction is like starting a diet just you can have a weekly "cheat meal" of pizza guilt-free lol.

Or a couple choosing how much house they can afford based on two incomes. Shouldn't it be conservatively based on one income in case somebody gets sick or laid off?


2) Getting degrees for education benefits only

Not sure exactly what you are getting at here.

3) women

If we took the time to REALLY think about what men do for vag, we would all face-palm.

4) Rejecting the idea of leasing a car

I'm actually anti-lease. I understand that buying is not a good investment, but I don't have to be afraid to put a few dings on the car or rack up excessive mileage. I buy pre-owned and run it into the ground mileage-wise.

5) Buying something off of credit in hoping to improve your credit score

Like applying for a store credit card just to save 20 percent on a purchase. The customer isn't thinking about the hard pull credit inquiry which can cost you at least 5 points off your score for the next year or two.

6) Getting married based off love

It's usually based on lust. Then you better have love later when the sex stops after the honeymoon.

7) Having children because you want to be moral(not having abortion, want to populate the earth, and etc)
I don't have kids. No opinion on that one. See above for others.
 
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