"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Commitment is worth a lot to a girl

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I'm having a moment of clarity. Think of the dating game through the eyes of a female. And think how much it would be worth to have a guy want to commit their life to you.

Now who is actually willing to do that?

And I wonder if they think they even deserve it these days. Seeing as they give little in return.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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the 5% of guys girls are actually fvcking attracted to are players that fvck them toss em, and rarely call back.

the 95% of dudes who will make PERFECT boyfriends long term they are not even on their radar and end up paying their bills.

ask every hot girl about their exs and they usually all of them cheated.
 
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the 5% of guys girls are actually fvcking attracted to are players that fvck them toss em, and rarely call back.

the 95% of dudes who will make PERFECT boyfriends long term they are not even on their radar and end up paying their bills.

ask every hot girl about their exs and they usually all of them cheated.
And is it because these players have "money, looks, and/or status?"
 

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And is it because these players have "money, looks, and/or status?"
looks help obviously! money im not so certain as my last few women tbf have always put there hands in there pockets, HOWEVER women are very disrespectful these days in other areas there like little 12 year old girls, the government and social media have created this.

my daughters mom dispatches of men quicker than a fat bird going down on a sausage roll , shes a good woman and a good mother, however cause shes paid X by the government and the house is paid for by the government she has no worries shes Aloof

I got 10 years from the relationship by applying old principles ie we had no hand outs we both worked

shes better than any DJ on this website and she wouldnt even know what we were on about it just comes natural to her cause of recent circumstances
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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no its only the government and social media that have cause this ***** made of gold mentallity
 

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sorry in the UK if you are an unemployed single mother you get about 100 dollars? a week for the first child and your house is rent free so to speak!
obv the dad of the children will be giving you money aswell,
so basically a single mom who barely works in the Uk with 2 children will be living the life of someone taking in lets say 500 dollars a week paying there own bills
 
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sorry in the UK if you are an unemployed single mother you get about 100 dollars? a week for the first child and your house is rent free so to speak!
obv the dad of the children will be giving you money aswell,
so basically a single mom who barely works in the Uk with 2 children will be living the life of someone taking in lets say 500 dollars a week paying there own bills
Damn that's fvcked up. I hope the hatred between genders isn't as bad in the UK as it is in USA.

Britain used to kick so much a$$ before WW2 and all the liberalism nonsense. I spent about 3-4 hours today and yesterday watching YouTube videos about British history. From Pre-Roman times through 1066. I still have about an hour left to watch.

I could never get tired of European history. Sucks we lost it all.
 

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I'm having a moment of clarity. Think of the dating game through the eyes of a female. And think how much it would be worth to have a guy want to commit their life to you.
You're kidding right?
Now who is actually willing to do that?
The majority, even on less than decent terms. They'll desperately chase promising her queen treatment in the hopes of winning a chick over, does that seem to work out for those guys? Absolutely not, most times it fails horribly and when it works they fail even worse when they eventually get wrecked after their bank accounts are sucked dry.
And I wonder if they think they even deserve it these days. Seeing as they give little in return.
Who are they? All women?

You are either turning into a full fledged Mr. NiceGuy beta or you're parodying r/niceguys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're kidding right?

The majority, even on less than decent terms. They'll desperately chase promising her queen treatment in the hopes of winning a chick over, does that seem to work out for those guys? Absolutely not, most times it fails horribly and when it works they fail even worse when they eventually get wrecked after their bank accounts are sucked dry.

Who are they? All women?

You are either turning into a full fledged Mr. NiceGuy beta or you're parodying r/niceguys.
So what am I supposed to do? Be a d1ck 24/7?
 

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no you be indifferent weve said this you have a IDGAF attitude like the woman does
 

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think how much it would be worth to have a guy want to commit their life to you.
Well... It all depends on the situation and how the woman feels about the whole thing. If the guy is boring or annoying, she's not going to want him committing his life to her. If the guy is confident, can fvck damn near anything that crosses his path, and she's been thinking about him constantly and putting him in her fantasies, THEN it will mean something to her.

The key is to NEVER commit your life to her. She should always be working for it. However, you can reward her after a couple of decades of dedication, respect, and devotion.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rationally chicks want the sweet commitment dude that worships her. Emotionally they NEED the man that pushes her buttons.

Since chicks are emotional beings the emotionally attractive dude that has lots of chicks chasing him, will win out, at least until she gets that emotional fix.
 
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