"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zekko

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I have a few minutes so I thought I would post these very basic thoughts about SoSuave that are running through my head right now:

1) I read the new "featured article" called Relax - Becoming a Successful Seducer is Easier than You Think. Some of the articles here aren't very good, and some are just bad ads, but I liked this one. I thought it was better than average, and not just the same usual stuff rehashed for the 1,000th time.

2) Those rotating pictures of the girls at the bottom of the page, or sometimes at the top of the page. That girl with the dark hair and the horn rimmed glasses is pretty smoking hot, and has a very sultry look. On the other hand, the picture of that girl eating the strawberry is very unappealing. She looks like she's had a stroke or something.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I see this thread never got any replies. I'm bumping it just to say that I've started a few threads on some of the featured articles here, but none of them have gotten much of a response. I wonder why that is? Do posters here not read the featured articles?
 

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I've always wondered how the sosuave.com and sosuave.net domains are related as the forum content is light years better than the main site's. Not that it's bad by any means.
 

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Well I'm not going to bite the hand Alan's done a great thing for men out there. But I also remember the great SS meltdown and my favourite resources from the site r safe on a couple of hard drives accumulated in last year's monk mode. Much love to all the senior posters it will take me a couple of years to absorb and apply part of this knowledge. E.g. Espi and bukowski_merits online game, colossus and motu on relationship game - pure gold. Although I do think that pua does gets slammed a bit too much here. Those guys have come up with a lot of good material. It's all training. You have to learn to walk before you can run. And I reckon modified mystery method would still get you laid. But yeah the self improvement aspects and the DJ Bible make SS much more rounded than any pua site that I know of.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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