"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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joe45

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hey was at this high class event planning party and one of my classmate who is also chinese guy tells me this: you gotta dress nicer and appear good, look confident b/c this party is mostly full of white elite ppl. you don't want them to look down on us chinese ppl do u. he even said- "my grandad came to canada in the 1900 and had to pay the headtax do u now how shameful that is, why do u think chinese ppl all want to drive mercedes-so white ppl don;'t look down on us, why do u think so many of us chinese go to ubc-univeristy in bc and study business, sci, law, med, -b/c we don;t wnat the white ppl to look down on us. he said how white ppl think chinese are dumb. he then said your chinese , so make us look better.

lol i dressed fine that day, jsut no blazer, just white shirt, tie, dress pants, and dress shoes.

oh ya and he said his grandpa paid the head tax -ah ya right hes says he was born in HK before, so how. he seems way too kind of fobbish too. the ppl he hangs out with an his accent. its too thick in chinese. and his chinese is better than mine too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Potbelly

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dude your friend is an idiot. clearly a fob because he's so influenced by the white stereotypes his ignorant parents told him.

any asian who was born here or lived here most of their life knows all that is bullsh1t. if anything white ppl think asians are nerds and smarter than them. ever watch madtv? go youtube average asian...racist but hilarious
 

Thorns

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Mess with his mind and tell him that he shames his people for thinking white people are so great. Everyone likes guys that be themselves and have a great time.
 

AfRoSwiss-Disiac

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WOW your firend has alot of SELF HATE-
There is no race better then one
WE are all one race the human race..
I wouldnt hang around your friend anymore becuase obviously he doesnt have any confidence about who he is and himself he is not comfortable with himself.
Race is a state of mind
 

skirtChaser

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ask him what he does about all white guys thinking all chinese guys have small d!cks.....lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jaxon

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F*ck that guy dude. Tell him to grow a sack and quit living for other people.
 
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