Comment On This Girl (Rant)

[The Message Boy]

ThunderMaverick says,

Y'know, this might come as a REALLY big shock for some of the "masculine-way" zealots out there, but SOME women don't want to commit themselves to a guy who sleeps with other women.

I could make 9 other threads about this problem I have right here. I don't know HOW many times I have heard this from girls:

"Message boy you seem like you **** anything that walks."
"Message boy you seem like you won't commit"
"You're not talking to other girls? Bull, what do I look stupid?"

Girls have told me that they didn't move forward and let me **** or whatever, because I just SEEMED like a player.

I posted this in one of my other threads but here's the way MOST of my interactions with women go:

1.) I see girl or group of girls

2.) I go and do my "thang" which is really whatever comes out of my mouth at the time lol. I would relate it to the "****y funny" stuff guys talk about around here, but I would say I'm more "****y, funny, sexual," like I'll say something funny but it's ****y, but it's also sexual though lol.

Girl says it's "cute".

3.) The girl or girls laugh and flirt back with me.

4.) At that point I just continue to assume rapport and assume they want me at that point lol, if I don't get a "ewww get away from me dude" I'm in, that's the way I think!

5.) I'm touching her, massaging, doing other sexual ****.

6.) At this point I wud exhange numbers but THIS is when it gets interesting...

Its becomes like you are CHASING a sales propsect.

Okay you know how you have a prospect INTERESTED but you have to call them or email a couple of times to get them off the dime, THAT is what happens here.

We get into a TEXT or CALL or IM type of thing back and forth. Still the same sexual relationsip type of vibe like before, but the ISSUE here is that to get her off the dime to LET ME **** her it's like she DELIBERATELY makes me WAIT or delays it.

And some girls I've talked to said they delayed it because they KNEW, listen to this, they KNEW I was a player and they didn't want to be NEXT.

So I'm like, lol, I"m not even like that or watever.

I have TONS, I mean TONS of girls that I talk to all the time that have NOT LET ME **** YET and it's because of this reason.

But that's my style though. My style is the lik, cokcy, funny, sexual guy, and I do kinda give off the vibe that I talk to alot of women but that's my STYLE! Lol, I mean what am I supposed to do, that's me.

If anybody has any suggestions on what I can do to get around this, I'm willing to hear.

 

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Message-

I think this is pretty simple. You admit you spin, she goes off and does the same and you freak out.

Whats the problem?

Can't eat your own medicine?