"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Comment on my workout schedule.

Warboss Alex

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Flabbergasped? said:
I think I will slow down with heavy lifting and focus on soccer and bboying, but over the summer I'll probably start lifting again.

As a separate question, if one does lift for a period of time (let's say two-three months) and makes gains, would stopping the heavy lifting and beginning cardio make their muscles immediately atrophy?

I ask this because I've seen some relatively buff people start doing nearly exclusively cardio and keep their muscle definition.
2-3 months is NO time at all to make any gains that your body will want to keep. You won't atrophy because you won't have gained anything significant -to- atrophy.

Basically to keep muscle you must provide your body with a stimulus and enough calories. What sort of stimulus and calories required depends on the person's genetics (how mesomorphic they are etc).. to get an idea of how much muscle your body will carry without a stimulus, look at yourself before you worked out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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