“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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HINDEMITH

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I am very pleased that Doc Love put Bart in his place.
Bart has no conscience--to think he would try to steal
away a woman from a lesser attractive man!
It also gives me great comfort that looks aren't every-
thing since I, myself, am not that great in the physically
attractive department (I'm 5' 11" and weigh 235 lbs.,
although I'm trying to lose weight).
Good for you Doc Love; this most recent article was
very encouraging!!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Turalyon999

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It wasn't so much that Bart wanted to steal the girl away from the guy as he just couldn't grasp the concept of a HB going out with a physically unattractive(to him) guy. I also think DL did a good job of explaining Bart's folly of placing so much importance on looks, and correctly diagnosed his narcisstic tendencies
 

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Well as one who is physically fit, I must admit that I wonder why some really hb's are with pretty dumpy looking guys. However, I don't go around trying to prove I am better than them.

Unless you understand the dynamics of a relationship, you can't prejudge it based on superficial reasons. Maybe, like DL says, the guy has a great personality or just makes the girl feel good.
 

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Yea I seem to get annoyed when I see it too, because I am physically fit. However, it is all due to my frustration w/girls. If I was in a relationship or with a hb, I would probably care less if an unattractive guy is with a hb. I would probably be like, GOOD FOR HIM!!
 
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