Situation: a year or so ago I went to spend a week at some friends place in another city, meet hb9, she showed interest, chased her but I have the feeling it might have come off as too strong and too fast. Anyways, never got anywhere, had to leave, tried to meet with her in a another city we both travel to frequently but she never returned the call (at the time I just nexted her and never thought about it again).
Now I´m probably travelling to this friends city again soon, I might bump into her again, and if the dynamic is still there I´ll likely try to see this trough again, what you guys suggest, keep doing what I was doing before or tone it down a bit? She is a introvert, btw.
I prefer to come off as too strong than as too weak, but this situation didn´t turned out so well, so I´m thinking I´ll play it softer this time... what do you guys think? I´ll probably be going to this place more often now. The fact that she never returned the call also makes me wanna not give her the time of the day.
This is not oneitis, just a 9 that seemed like a good prospect at the time but I never managed to see it trough and I want to chalk down either as a "learning experience" or a sucess, not a loose end (a very irrelevant one, but still one) - if I have the opportunity, that is.
Now I´m probably travelling to this friends city again soon, I might bump into her again, and if the dynamic is still there I´ll likely try to see this trough again, what you guys suggest, keep doing what I was doing before or tone it down a bit? She is a introvert, btw.
I prefer to come off as too strong than as too weak, but this situation didn´t turned out so well, so I´m thinking I´ll play it softer this time... what do you guys think? I´ll probably be going to this place more often now. The fact that she never returned the call also makes me wanna not give her the time of the day.
This is not oneitis, just a 9 that seemed like a good prospect at the time but I never managed to see it trough and I want to chalk down either as a "learning experience" or a sucess, not a loose end (a very irrelevant one, but still one) - if I have the opportunity, that is.