Okay guys, let me first say that this post may be a little lengthy. I recently had an experience that changed my life for the better and I just want to explain what happened, how it happend, and tell you guys the situation i'm currently in. Hopefully I'll get some responses but if not, whatever.
So first let me start with this experience. I book spring break for my college campus. Just this week the company that I work for sent about 6 people to my campus to have a meeting with me. They sent the owner and his "team." So during their time here I realized that EVERYONE was talking to them. I couldn't place my finger on WHY or HOW they were SOOO good at talking to everyone. For example I saw a HB 9 in the hallway, I would NEVER say anything to this girl unless I was drunk or she brought somethign up for me (I know thats pvssy but still on my way to DJism). But these guys went right up to her and I personally ended up talking to this girl for 20 minutes and got her #!
So it hit me, they are so OUTGOING and its contagious. I swear ever since they left I've been talking to everyone, keeping eye contact, and my energy level has always been on top of everyoens. AND ITS WORKING MAGIC. I went from spinning 0 plates, to spinnning 4 in about 72 hours. So thats my experience and I hope you guys take what you can from it because it truly has helped me out enormously.
Now for this situation I'm in, I'm going to tell you guys what the deal is from START to FINISH...NO BULL SH*T -- I (as well as a lot of you guys I'm sure) exaggerate what I say on this site SOMETIMES. However I'm done with that sh*t. Everything I say on this site from now on will be 100% truthful.
So back to my story...I know this girl, lets call her X. I've known her since the 2nd day of college (I'm now in my Junior year). Our first time we hooked up was 1st semester of sophmore year. She had a BF (I didn't know) and we were both real fvcked up. She slept over but she had her period so we didn't do much.
Then I didn't touch her for until midway through 2nd semester. Now at this point shes single again, which was good new for me, or so I thought. I hooked up with her about once every 2 weeks at this point. So at this point, I was hardly getting my d*ck touched and she was even bringing OTHER GUYS she was getting with back to MY apartment. So what did I do, I came on this site and you guys told me to NEXT her but I refused. Not a good choice at the time.
So that was what happend during 2nd semester. Now summer comes, shes living in NYC (20 mins from me). So we hung out about 6-7 times. This is when I started taking this site seriously again, I was working on my EC, negs, C+F etc etc. SHe was feeling me but I only got with her once (on her bday).
So here we are now, back at school, and I have this new weapon that I just picked up on and I'm using it on her. So now SHES texting me ALMOST every day to chill. It used to be the case that when she had 2 options for a night, we were usually the 2nd choice, but not no more, now she finds every way over here.
Now heres the thing. I had a party here the other night. X and her friends came. 2 of them ended up just chillen in my bed room. So when I saw them walk into my room I was like WTF and went in to see what was up. Ended up to be liek 6 people in here and I'm just sitting there spitting game to X. Next thing you know her friends were like ok lets go, so I get NOTHING. Then 10 minutes later, X and 1 of her friends walk right back in and say they wanna chill. But NO action for me. I made all the right moves, EC, negged, C+F, Kinoed her, but NOTHING.
Then last night we were in my friends apt drinking and she came over with a few friends. Next thing I know we end up coming to my place to smoke with her friends. I'm sitting right next to her making her laugh and **** but end up AGAIN WITH NOTHING.
Now 1 of the major factors (I think -- or it can also be deemed an excuse but I don't think it is) is the fact that my roomate/best friend was going out with her roomate/best friend. They are now broken up but hang out a lot. They haven't gotten with each other since we've been back to school. So I feel as if X not staying/getting with me has something to do with that.
So my question to you guys is simply wtf do I do. I feel like I want to call/text her today calling her out on what shes been pulling and what not. But at the same time thats telling her that I care and what shes doing is getting under my skin. So I'm at a loss for what to do. So help me out here guys cause I could definately use some help now.
So first let me start with this experience. I book spring break for my college campus. Just this week the company that I work for sent about 6 people to my campus to have a meeting with me. They sent the owner and his "team." So during their time here I realized that EVERYONE was talking to them. I couldn't place my finger on WHY or HOW they were SOOO good at talking to everyone. For example I saw a HB 9 in the hallway, I would NEVER say anything to this girl unless I was drunk or she brought somethign up for me (I know thats pvssy but still on my way to DJism). But these guys went right up to her and I personally ended up talking to this girl for 20 minutes and got her #!
So it hit me, they are so OUTGOING and its contagious. I swear ever since they left I've been talking to everyone, keeping eye contact, and my energy level has always been on top of everyoens. AND ITS WORKING MAGIC. I went from spinning 0 plates, to spinnning 4 in about 72 hours. So thats my experience and I hope you guys take what you can from it because it truly has helped me out enormously.
Now for this situation I'm in, I'm going to tell you guys what the deal is from START to FINISH...NO BULL SH*T -- I (as well as a lot of you guys I'm sure) exaggerate what I say on this site SOMETIMES. However I'm done with that sh*t. Everything I say on this site from now on will be 100% truthful.
So back to my story...I know this girl, lets call her X. I've known her since the 2nd day of college (I'm now in my Junior year). Our first time we hooked up was 1st semester of sophmore year. She had a BF (I didn't know) and we were both real fvcked up. She slept over but she had her period so we didn't do much.
Then I didn't touch her for until midway through 2nd semester. Now at this point shes single again, which was good new for me, or so I thought. I hooked up with her about once every 2 weeks at this point. So at this point, I was hardly getting my d*ck touched and she was even bringing OTHER GUYS she was getting with back to MY apartment. So what did I do, I came on this site and you guys told me to NEXT her but I refused. Not a good choice at the time.
So that was what happend during 2nd semester. Now summer comes, shes living in NYC (20 mins from me). So we hung out about 6-7 times. This is when I started taking this site seriously again, I was working on my EC, negs, C+F etc etc. SHe was feeling me but I only got with her once (on her bday).
So here we are now, back at school, and I have this new weapon that I just picked up on and I'm using it on her. So now SHES texting me ALMOST every day to chill. It used to be the case that when she had 2 options for a night, we were usually the 2nd choice, but not no more, now she finds every way over here.
Now heres the thing. I had a party here the other night. X and her friends came. 2 of them ended up just chillen in my bed room. So when I saw them walk into my room I was like WTF and went in to see what was up. Ended up to be liek 6 people in here and I'm just sitting there spitting game to X. Next thing you know her friends were like ok lets go, so I get NOTHING. Then 10 minutes later, X and 1 of her friends walk right back in and say they wanna chill. But NO action for me. I made all the right moves, EC, negged, C+F, Kinoed her, but NOTHING.
Then last night we were in my friends apt drinking and she came over with a few friends. Next thing I know we end up coming to my place to smoke with her friends. I'm sitting right next to her making her laugh and **** but end up AGAIN WITH NOTHING.
Now 1 of the major factors (I think -- or it can also be deemed an excuse but I don't think it is) is the fact that my roomate/best friend was going out with her roomate/best friend. They are now broken up but hang out a lot. They haven't gotten with each other since we've been back to school. So I feel as if X not staying/getting with me has something to do with that.
So my question to you guys is simply wtf do I do. I feel like I want to call/text her today calling her out on what shes been pulling and what not. But at the same time thats telling her that I care and what shes doing is getting under my skin. So I'm at a loss for what to do. So help me out here guys cause I could definately use some help now.