"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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I have just read this post http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76407
and people are talking about those akward silences. Well when you are truely comfortable around someone, and i mean truely comfortable like a parents, brother or best freind etc the silence is not akward.

If you are in a longterm relationship you will know you are truely comfortable with the girl once those silences are no longer akward. You can walk down the street with her not saying a word for 10 minutes and it is no longer akward at all.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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thank you for blessing us with these pearls of wisdom, o'Great One.



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