Comfort Zone for foreigners. Need help.

[Omega]

How much comfort do you need to create for a foreign girl opposed to someone who already lives in the country? There's one I'm DJ'ing right now but I'm not quite sure, I thought a couple extra touches (I have them up my sleeve ready for use), however I don't want to get SO comfortable that a LJBF happens, so I'm thinking (I just met her tonight), that a normal ammount would work with a little extra built into the attraction stage..

Opinions? Ideas?

 

[Omega]

Anyone?

 

[pimpette]

Why would you treat a foreigner any different from someone who has lived in the country?

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by pimpette
Why would you treat a foreigner any different from someone who has lived in the country?

Because their new which means their not going to be use to the difference in social aspects, school, etc. So in turn their going to be a ton more nervous.

(She just came a couple days ago, btw)

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

it depends... When people move to a new place they either

a) Get really nervous/afraid and feel stressed out
b) Get really extrovert and want to meet new people and have fun...

With both groups making them feel welcome, at home and have fun is important. The a group tends to be afraid they'll have issues fitting inn or feel that they don't have friends etc so building up a good social basis is important, which it is with both groups.

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by Kineti[C]harm
it depends... When people move to a new place they either

a) Get really nervous/afraid and feel stressed out
b) Get really extrovert and want to meet new people and have fun...

With both groups making them feel welcome, at home and have fun is important. The a group tends to be afraid they'll have issues fitting inn or feel that they don't have friends etc so building up a good social basis is important, which it is with both groups.

How can you tell group A from B? She seems outgoing but at the same time she seems misplaced..that's the thing.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

just take it slow --you can't go wrong for that.

if you take it fast -- then she may freak and you lose.

 

[Omega]

Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
just take it slow --you can't go wrong for that.

if you take it fast -- then she may freak and you lose.

I got three months..

Does that make any difference? I'm trying to go slow as possible but I dont want to loose IL