"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Comedian Russell Brand found guilty by UK court of rape and sexual assaults

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It's the current powerful taking down either the old powerful (Brand) or the potential new powerful (Tommy Robinson, Danny Tommo).

A story as old as time...
Another explanation:

-As a species, we're not predisposed towards giving those who physically resemble the rabble more strongly than they do the glitterati benefits of the doubt. It's long been joked that Brand somehow looks as if he's never come within 500 miles of a bath tub, despite being a multimillionaire

-Nothing provides The 5-0 and our judiciary with stronger PR than excising those who seem "too different" from "the norm" out of general society

-General society, on some level, also yearns for a Messianic force that'll "keep us safe" from such individuals. It's not a coincidence that what Radley Balko has dubbed The Rise Of The Warrior Cop began around '73, when Middle America no longer found The Counterculture cute

-ESPECIALLY if that individual is famous for trying to appear like the smartest person in the room, or/and more righteous than the rest of us mere mortals art

-Washed up/Near Washed up celebrities who meet one or both these criterias are prime targets for such takedowns

Whether or not he's guilty of the charges he's been convicted, the public image Brand designed essentially inked him up in a full-body target. Had such accusations been hurled at someone like Zac Efron, public support for the accusers would be considerably less powerful, and the prosecution would've found making these charges stick a far more daunting task than they did Brand



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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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