"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Comeback from crash and burn

The Daddy

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Ok, you use the "who lies most" opener and the lady is just giving you one word answers. How do you get out of that situation? What do you say if you want to move on?

The Daddy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Fash

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I like,

me: "Hey, you've been relatively interesting, but I gotta get back to my mates/ get a drink/ go feed my cat"

I'm curious though, what is the "who lies most" opener?
 

johnmich

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You ask them who lies more, women or men and then discuss and go on from there.
 
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