Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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CrazyAsianBiker

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I've come to a point of where i realized that there are the unders and the uppers, the opposite will of course always go for the uppers regardless of the consequences or regardless of what happens or what the uppers represent.

The unders end up getting ****ed over, getting the other end of the stick, getting the ass end, getting leftovers.

If you don't stay on top, you get what trickles down.

IT IS JUST ****ING FACT.

You see.....

The most decieving ones will drag you onto think otherwise to their graves.

They will hold themselves to themselves until they die.

You see, the reason for trickling down is, The uppers get everything first.

They get the best of everything.

They get the fresh clean opposites.

The downers get what trickles down and get taken for granted.

Most of the uppers are their just by pure coincidence.

Or just by circumstance.

As goes for the lowers.

You see the uppers get a fresh clean slate, then they discard of it and do not need to take care of the opposites anymore.

The unders get the exact opposite.

What is most repulsive is that they also get disrespected completely.

They get information witheld, they never get to see what the uppers saw, they never get to feel what the uppers felt, and whats worse, is they only get to feel the mold that the uppers made.

Now ****ING ASK YOURSELF.

ARE YOU GOING TO BE AN UPPER OR A LOWER.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You sound like a crack head with all this talk of uppers. lol.

I don't really have the mental capacity at 3:48Pm in the morning to read all that you have said, and understand it, but I promise I will later.
 

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WTF? Are you okay? Seriously.
 

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Makes perfect but he poorely worded it.

I think he is sayign be alert , take chances and never hesistate. Those who hesistate are left with nothing or soemthing they do not want. Be take charge.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker
The Opposites are the women.

Uppers and lowers are men.
No need for code words man. Where the hell have you been?
 

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He's just saying that the uppers and lowers represent the men who have initiative and the men who don't; however, this outlook has been covered by the bible I think.
 

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i wasn't really putting it there to be revolutionary, just stating something. I wanted to get it off my chest.

Haha i've been up to quite a bit oakraiderz...

Feels good knowing someone remembers me.

I've had my one itis as a GF for about 10 months now.

Going through some problems but not really.

Went to jail a couple times, due to go back to jail in a week.

But i'm getting off probation this time and i already talked to my school and they'll let it off so i'm still getting my university scholarship. Just kind of have to polish some rough areas.

Owned a jaguar for a few months then that kind of went to ****.
Girl at my school is trying to mack on me but i'm not having it...

At least not yet ;).

Damn she's hot though...

One of my best friends died, another friends friend died, someone else died. And another person is dying.

How about you?
 

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Is it just me? or is there a type of heirarchy here.

If someone doesn't put something in essay form no one reads it.
A few people get their asses licked out by everyone.

What the **** is this ****?

I'm stating basically on the people who are arrogant and try to impose their post status on me. (No one in this post)

Just because you have 1,000 posts doesn't mean that you're any more or less than me, i've basically read the bible and made my own form of DJ by EXPERIENCE. That's why my posts status is only 100. So basically.... **** EVERYONE THAT HAS A GRIP OF POSTS AND THINKS THAT IT MEANS ANYTHING.

Thank you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker
i wasn't really putting it there to be revolutionary, just stating something. I wanted to get it off my chest.

Haha i've been up to quite a bit oakraiderz...

Feels good knowing someone remembers me.

I've had my one itis as a GF for about 10 months now.

Going through some problems but not really.

Went to jail a couple times, due to go back to jail in a week.

But i'm getting off probation this time and i already talked to my school and they'll let it off so i'm still getting my university scholarship. Just kind of have to polish some rough areas.

Owned a jaguar for a few months then that kind of went to ****.
Girl at my school is trying to mack on me but i'm not having it...

At least not yet ;).

Damn she's hot though...

One of my best friends died, another friends friend died, someone else died. And another person is dying.

How about you?
Damn, thats some rough sh*t. Not too much, just going to school and trying to fufill my potential. Same sh*t different day i suppose.
 
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