"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Come to a point...

CrazyAsianBiker

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I've come to a point of where i realized that there are the unders and the uppers, the opposite will of course always go for the uppers regardless of the consequences or regardless of what happens or what the uppers represent.

The unders end up getting ****ed over, getting the other end of the stick, getting the ass end, getting leftovers.

If you don't stay on top, you get what trickles down.

IT IS JUST ****ING FACT.

You see.....

The most decieving ones will drag you onto think otherwise to their graves.

They will hold themselves to themselves until they die.

You see, the reason for trickling down is, The uppers get everything first.

They get the best of everything.

They get the fresh clean opposites.

The downers get what trickles down and get taken for granted.

Most of the uppers are their just by pure coincidence.

Or just by circumstance.

As goes for the lowers.

You see the uppers get a fresh clean slate, then they discard of it and do not need to take care of the opposites anymore.

The unders get the exact opposite.

What is most repulsive is that they also get disrespected completely.

They get information witheld, they never get to see what the uppers saw, they never get to feel what the uppers felt, and whats worse, is they only get to feel the mold that the uppers made.

Now ****ING ASK YOURSELF.

ARE YOU GOING TO BE AN UPPER OR A LOWER.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TesuqueRed

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Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker
....Most of the uppers are their just by pure coincidence.

Or just by circumstance.

As goes for the lowers....
I'm following you until this point. I don't think so.

Accident of birth is one thing, but we take too much from it. Don't forget that the kids are not completely random creations apart from the parents. They often share the very traits that got the parents where they are.

Sad but true (I forget who said this): (summarizing it here) divide up all the wealth in the world equally among everyone and in 15 years those who hold all the wealth now would have it back.

Look at the winners and losers on average and you'll note predispositions or tendencies that lead a person one way or the other.

This isn't absolute, though, because we all are attracted to stories of unders who persevere and rise to great heights and of uppers who piss it all away in drunkeness and profligacy (not a word you read everyday, is that?)

completely random? it's more complex than that. "karma" may not explain it but there's something in that idea...
 

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Re: Re: Come to a point...

Originally posted by TesuqueRed
I'm following you until this point. I don't think so.

Accident of birth is one thing, but we take too much from it. Don't forget that the kids are not completely random creations apart from the parents. They often share the very traits that got the parents where they are.
True, but you have to believe that with these traits passed down, god (or whoever) also blessed us humans with self-consciousness.......and it is those people who WORK to tap into their consciousness that have the ability to control how they live their life. They are aware of their strengths and weaknesses by refining what they know to be reality.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just to clear things up... the Opposites are women.

Uppers and lowers are men.

I took in and read your replies thank you for your time.
 
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