Come on guys, stop with the flaming of each other and bickering. This is an INTERNET FORUM. Why try and "one up" each other? It'll only get deleted anyway. Also, don't whine if a moderator closes/moves/deletes a thread. There is always a reason for it. Also, unless a post is ATLEAST 3 weeks old, refrain from bumping it unless you are adding something useful to the convo. A post that is 10 minutes old doesn't need to get "bumped."
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Come on...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Capi Crimini
Banned
if your refering to me... the Beta Post was 20 days old... thats one day short.... common...
As to the Bishop Thing... I blocked the guy like my post said I would... I really hate flaming. and appologize... You need to post that old pic... It's the speical olypics one....You know what i mean?
As to the Bishop Thing... I blocked the guy like my post said I would... I really hate flaming. and appologize... You need to post that old pic... It's the speical olypics one....You know what i mean?
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
It is rather hard not to get caught in a flame war around here nowadays. About the only way to avoid it is to stop posting altogether.
It's funny, when I first came here this place was mostly about helping yourself as well as others. Now it is more about p!ssing contests than anything else. Perhaps I never should have started posting here in the first place. It seems that I have helped hardly anyone at all in my time here with the exception of myself.
But thats something atleast.
It's funny, when I first came here this place was mostly about helping yourself as well as others. Now it is more about p!ssing contests than anything else. Perhaps I never should have started posting here in the first place. It seems that I have helped hardly anyone at all in my time here with the exception of myself.
But thats something atleast.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Bump!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
Gotta stop the "HERE'S MY PICTURE" threads.
It ALWAYS turns into a flame war. I remember that 20 page PICTURE thread where this guy wondered why people think he looks gay...or that he looks like a fag...HOLY SH*T..i remember his name was ELF..hahaha..
you all remember that thread..and you gotta admit that sh*t was hilarious!!! with the sleeveless shirt and arm wrapped aound another guy..haha..classic!
but yea...picture threads are the devil!!! if peeps wanna see what everyone else looks like, i suggest PM them.
It ALWAYS turns into a flame war. I remember that 20 page PICTURE thread where this guy wondered why people think he looks gay...or that he looks like a fag...HOLY SH*T..i remember his name was ELF..hahaha..
you all remember that thread..and you gotta admit that sh*t was hilarious!!! with the sleeveless shirt and arm wrapped aound another guy..haha..classic!
but yea...picture threads are the devil!!! if peeps wanna see what everyone else looks like, i suggest PM them.
Maybe not stopping them, put putting them in one thread (and ONE forum) would help. That, plus maybe stop the "rate my pic" and make it so you can only POST your pic and not get commented on it unless you ask, but not "oh my god, you look so gay!"
diablo
Master Don Juan
I almost spit out my protein shake when I read that... that's hilarious. I can see how it would easily get out of hand...
The one 'picture thread' idea is a sound one. Perhaps entitled "Post a picture of yourself here!"...