Come on guys, stop with the flaming of each other and bickering. This is an INTERNET FORUM. Why try and "one up" each other? It'll only get deleted anyway. Also, don't whine if a moderator closes/moves/deletes a thread. There is always a reason for it. Also, unless a post is ATLEAST 3 weeks old, refrain from bumping it unless you are adding something useful to the convo. A post that is 10 minutes old doesn't need to get "bumped."
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Come on...
- Thread starter Eternal
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Capi Crimini
Banned
if your refering to me... the Beta Post was 20 days old... thats one day short.... common...
As to the Bishop Thing... I blocked the guy like my post said I would... I really hate flaming. and appologize... You need to post that old pic... It's the speical olypics one....You know what i mean?
As to the Bishop Thing... I blocked the guy like my post said I would... I really hate flaming. and appologize... You need to post that old pic... It's the speical olypics one....You know what i mean?
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
It is rather hard not to get caught in a flame war around here nowadays. About the only way to avoid it is to stop posting altogether.
It's funny, when I first came here this place was mostly about helping yourself as well as others. Now it is more about p!ssing contests than anything else. Perhaps I never should have started posting here in the first place. It seems that I have helped hardly anyone at all in my time here with the exception of myself.
But thats something atleast.
It's funny, when I first came here this place was mostly about helping yourself as well as others. Now it is more about p!ssing contests than anything else. Perhaps I never should have started posting here in the first place. It seems that I have helped hardly anyone at all in my time here with the exception of myself.
But thats something atleast.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Bump!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
Gotta stop the "HERE'S MY PICTURE" threads.
It ALWAYS turns into a flame war. I remember that 20 page PICTURE thread where this guy wondered why people think he looks gay...or that he looks like a fag...HOLY SH*T..i remember his name was ELF..hahaha..
you all remember that thread..and you gotta admit that sh*t was hilarious!!! with the sleeveless shirt and arm wrapped aound another guy..haha..classic!
but yea...picture threads are the devil!!! if peeps wanna see what everyone else looks like, i suggest PM them.
It ALWAYS turns into a flame war. I remember that 20 page PICTURE thread where this guy wondered why people think he looks gay...or that he looks like a fag...HOLY SH*T..i remember his name was ELF..hahaha..
you all remember that thread..and you gotta admit that sh*t was hilarious!!! with the sleeveless shirt and arm wrapped aound another guy..haha..classic!
but yea...picture threads are the devil!!! if peeps wanna see what everyone else looks like, i suggest PM them.
Maybe not stopping them, put putting them in one thread (and ONE forum) would help. That, plus maybe stop the "rate my pic" and make it so you can only POST your pic and not get commented on it unless you ask, but not "oh my god, you look so gay!"
diablo
Master Don Juan
I almost spit out my protein shake when I read that... that's hilarious. I can see how it would easily get out of hand...
The one 'picture thread' idea is a sound one. Perhaps entitled "Post a picture of yourself here!"...