"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Come on guys where's your passion

here_to_help

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I am seeing too many guys who think everyone around them is competition, unless you're really at the bottom of the bucket this shouldn't be the case. Too many bitter guys who thinks ALL WOMEN X, let me tell you something WOMEN LIKE different things, so stop it with the all women bit and get to know a few more, will you please? And for god's sake if you're depressed, seek professional help, no one is going to want to be anywhere near you if the glass is always half empty. Some of the things I've read here are mind blowing how negative, you can't succeed in business or life if you always expect the worst. Slap yourselves in the face with a hard dose of reality, we have it better than people ever have before. You can become an expert at almost anything these days if you put in the work, there are thousands of AMAZING women to choose from, planes can take you shark diving one morning to skiing the next. Find your passion and get busy living the most amazing life anyone has ever lived. Do that and women will flock to you anyway so your original concern is moot.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Down Low

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here_to_help said:
Slap yourselves in the face with a hard dose of reality, we have it better than people ever have before. You can become an expert at almost anything these days if you put in the work, planes can take you shark diving one morning to skiing the next. Find your passion and get busy living the most amazing life anyone has ever lived.
How fvcking old are you? Ten?

Pricks like you go around blathering about "passions" and "creativity" -- are entitled little princes who don't live in the real world.

Not that long ago, anyone could pick up a newspaper, and it would have page after page of real want ads. Name of company, address, phone, full job description, qualifications needed -- not just half a page of BS ads looking for you to email personal data to data miners, or join the military. You could call the ten most likely, go out and fill applications, and by the time you got home, you would have been left at least one "you're hired" phone message. No email. No fax. No cover letter. No resume. No pre-pre-interview phone interview. No pre-interview. Just go talk to the foreman and he decided on the spot. Or maybe fill out an application, and come back and talk to personnel, and then get hired on the spot.

No way, no how, do we have it better than anybody had it before. Certainly not with the flabby, foul mouthed, entitled princess women department.

Where to fvck is this money supposed to come from to hire a plane to go shark diving -- much less pay the rent and bills at home while you're off on your perpetual holiday? Did you inherit ten rent houses from your parents or something? Did you get a million-dollar bond on your 18th birthday?

Where have you been the last decade? The high-tech and stock bubbles burst. All that was left was the housing bubble, and then that burst too. Half the families in America lost the homes they were buying. That's because they lost their part-time, temporary, no-benefit jobs and couldn't keep up payments. They couldn't even keep up credit card payments that let them live on borrowed time. Hell, the only reason they even tried to buy a house and face the increase after two years, was because they believed the hype that azzholes like you spew about how success is right around the corner if you just try hard enough. So the fake financial instruments went belly up and the credit has been cut off (fake as in speculating BOTH on repayments on baskets of bad debts, and taking out insurance in case the speculation didn't pan out). And it's even worse if you're divorced and paying alley[cat]-money or child support in addition to your own expenses.

We're living in an economic depression. These are depressing times. Any man has a right to be depressed if he was just used by some lying cheating slvt.

Without a good job, credit, or savings, the only people who live the good life are those who never had to worry about money in the first place. And they don't need your advice to go have a good time blowing money and using everyone in the world as servants and concubines.

OP, go fvck yourself.
 

TonyBaloney

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here_to_help said:
get busy living the most amazing life anyone has ever lived. Do that and women will flock to you anyway so your original concern is moot.
My intiatial reaction to the name and concept ofHere to help is to tell you that you are a turd, and to stop being so patronising!

But I am going to give you a chance Here to help you need to be providing much, much more information, tip and tricks of your fantastic life; we are all, afterall, Here to listen......
 

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We're living in an economic depression. These are depressing times. Any man has a right to be depressed if he was just used by some lying cheating slvt.

OP, go fvck yourself.
This... And the rest of your post.
 

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I'd love to take a different approach here. There's no need to berate some dude for coming on here and talking abut self-improvement. I do believe there is a little bit of patronizing going on here; but I've also been known to "preach" a bit myself. I think the underlying tone of 'go get what you're worth' is a good one. Could be said in a different way though.

While I'm here, with a whiskey drink in hand, I'll take this opportunity to throw some knowledge out to those of you who actually need it. Life is not easy. It will beat you to the ground and have no sympathy for where you have been or the people that have hurt you. You're going to have to battle. I'm not talking about external battles with other people; but rather internal battles where you want to give up and choose to succeed instead. I'm a firm believer that you become what you desire. If you are willing to sacrifice a bunch of drinking and food to achieve peak physical shape, you can. If you are willing to study your a$$ off you can learn anything you want.

Passion and desperation are related. If you are desperate, you will become passionate about something because you NEED to. Sometimes it takes hitting bottom to get to the top. Any success story, save Kim Kardashian, has a tone of desperation. Women are not the metric by which us men should be judged. Keep that in mind, my brothers. Sure there is a depression, but it will bring the best out of you. And in ten years, when it's all over, you'll be a better man for it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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